**** ,she dumped me, tell me if this is a reason to break up? ?

Question

The reason she gave for breaking up is that , she wants to take no risk ,ie if in case we breakup during exams it will ruin our life. So did she actually liked me , If yes, why is being so pessimistic???

Answer 1

she's obviously unsure, dont worry about it. Move on with your life. You sound very young, I'm sure there are plenty more fishes in the sea.

just take your time and enjoy your life. stay in school, be the best you can be! if it was meant to be it will be. :-)

Answer 2

She doesn't want to be with you and is trying to give you a reason that she thinks you will accept and not hurt your feelings.

Answer 3

that sounds like a stupid excuse....

well, to me it does anyway

just my opinion

Answer 4

That is a weird thing to say.  If she is telling the truth then she's got some problems and you're better off without her.  If she was making it up to not hurt your feelings or to just not have a confrontation, then she didn't like you enough, and what difference does it make what the "real" reason is?

IMO, if she was lying then that is a very strange lie to come up with and she sounds like kind of a flake either way, and you're better off without her..:)  

Answer 5

It really depends on her lifestyle. Is she in fact more academically more motivated or is she just using that as a front. I personally have had many fights that have lasted hours and my exams the next day suffered tremendously. I’m sure she likes you but you need to either assure her that will not happen or just respect her wishes. Give is time my friend, what ever you do don’t suffocate her with desperation.  

Answer 6

well, it sounds like she is lying........ i have heard alot of excuses.....but never one this stupid!!!!!!!! oh well if you are ever needing anyone to talk to im here. the other single

Answer 7

Hmmm, I'm not sure if that is the legitimate reason, but either way she doesn't seem worth it. Just focus on school to distract you for now until you find a new girl to spark your interest.

Answer 8

sounds like she just found any excuse to break up with you....that sounds like a dumb reason, dont u think?? soooo, that should tell u she was just looking for any reason outta the relationship.  Sorry, good luck