1 bridesmaid, 2 bestman....??

Question

Hi,,

For my wedding next year, my fiance has decided to have 2 bestman as they are both very good friends but i have only one bridesmaid and can't seem to find who might be the 2nd one... to tell u the truth i want 1 bridesmaid only since she's the only one i am close with. the problem might be: with whom is she going to walk with?? how am i going to coordinate that? thank you

Answer 1

Wedding etiquette has changes so much.  There is no need for anyone to walk with anyone.  Go out single file...then you and your new husband together....  Bridesmaid first alone, followed by two groomsmen, followed by the two of you.  Or as the fist answerer said-- all three with the maid in the middle, followed by the two of you.

Really-- do what YOU want.  

It's your day.

No matter what you do, some people will grouse and complain about something anyway. Who cares!  It's not their day!  It's YOURS!

I have been to weddings where my wife is in the party and sits at the head table with all the other people without their spouses or dates.

One wedding-- was very small.  Two bridesmaids (matrons really) and a best man.  All three sat at the head table and the spouses were invited to sit there with them.  It was an awesome time for all of us!

Congrats on your engagement!

May every blessing be yours during the preparations and AFTER the big event as well!  

Answer 2

The groomsmen will already be at the front before the ceremony starts, the bridesmaid will enter before you do.  After the ceremony, the groomsmen with the bridesmaid in the middle could all exit together.  Don't sweat it.

Answer 3

you can do whatever you want, its your wedding! You can have the best men be up front and just the maid of honor walk down the aisle before you alone, or you can have the best men both accompany her down the aisle, one on each side. Or have them all walk down alone.