1 child and another on the way no husband????

Question

i have a 3 year old and i have another one on the way. my recent husband left me. what can i do? i have my mother helping me for now but she didnt even raise me. she had her brother take me in. when i was 1 year old. now that i have another baby on the way i dont know what to do.

Answer 1

find a good man.u sound down. good luck,sometimes life sucks its up to you to make it better 4 you.

Answer 2

If he would walk out on your while you're pregnant then he is not worth keeping around.  And eventhough your mother didn't raise you it doesn't mean she can't help you out now. I'm sure everything will work out for the best. Good Luck

Answer 3

Hi,

Get him to cough up childcare and support you! he is the father and needs to take on his responsibilty, I would go and speak to your local CAB - not sure where you are location so cant give u the contact details but he should pay childcare and you could get some support.

Good luck to you

Answer 4

i feel u.. i just had my kid a week ago..and went through the whole 9 months alone..let alone, pay all the bills and what not. i worked up until i went into labor.

the childs father left after i told him i was expecting--i am thinking about getting child support..but don't wanna deal with the drama right now. its a struggle..but we gotta stay strong 4 the kids sake.

Answer 5

recent husband?

Answer 6

First, your husband is obligated to pay a fair share of your children's support. The important thing now is to have a healthy pregnancy. Are you working? If not go to the temp services and sign on with them. They can keep you working until your baby is born. Talk to your pastor or rabbi or whoever you have at your place of worship. If you don't have a place of workship start going to one. It is not weak to believe in a higher power.

Answer 7

Your life is so unstable right now. Bringing another child into an already chaotic situation is going to put an even greater strain on you. Consider adoption.