Howdy folks. Been almost a month now since I married my wife. She still won't let us physically consummate the marriage. She's scared of the pain. Maybe this is some sort of punishment for something I did wrong earlier in life.
Anyhoo, the details....
I will be getting inside her only a bit, and when it comes time for me to push fully, she winces in pain, and her legs tighten, and she moves up in bed. I try to catch up, she moves again. If she's against the wall or headboard, she will turn her body, and she keeps moving up.
So! Sounds like fun, eh? Myself, I'm getting mighty frustrated! As I've said in a previous e-mail, she's still a virgin. We've used up half a bottle of lube. Still nothing. I have to tell her to keep her legs spread. I wanted to make love to her gracefully before we married, but now....
So, the consequences of her not putting out? I feel alone. As if we are starting to drift. It is becoming harder and harder to get into the mood, because I'm starting to expect nothing to happen. I'm starting to think I will have a sexless marriage in the future.
She calls herself a coward. I don't argue with that. I must admit, my heart is hardening some. Our relationship is changing because of this. We are Catholic. I don't want to end a marriage over something like this.
There's gotta be an answer! Help us!
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