10 points! Issues with my boyfriends friend?

Question

My boyfriend and I are both 14 and have been dating for about 3 months. And for some weird reason his best friend really hates me and he never gives a reason why? Now me and my boyfriend are very close and we really love each other but I'm always feeling guilty because I don't want to get in the way of their friendship.

Now I am starting high school tomorrow and on breaks I just know my boyfriend and his friend are going to want to hang out. But he also told me he's going to be with me every day?

But if his friend hates me then I don't want to hang with both of them?

So just give me some advice please?

I don' t know what to do.

Answer 1

Tell ur bf u don't like the way his friend treats u and yes he is jealous I bet ur bfs friend does not have a gf and is pissed that his friend does so he takes the blame out on u or there is another option that he could in fact like u and is being mean 2 u 2 get ur attention it is a stupid way 2 get a girls attention I know but if the guy likes u then he will do anyhting 2 get ur attention which includs being a ***.  

Answer 2

I doubt very much that he friend hates you.  He is probably just a bit jealous of you.  You are taking his friend away from him (in his mind).  Or, he might have a little crush on you, and this is his way of dealing with it.  Just make sure that you do what it takes to make yourself happy.  The rest will all fall into place.  Sometimes it just takes a little time.  And always remeber to communicate.  It is the key to any successful relationship!!!

Answer 3

most guys get jealous of their buddies girlfriends. usually cause all of your mans attention is going towards you instead of the friends. try to find common ground with his friends and see if that helps. maybe yall could all go out together and do something, like going to an amusement park or the movies or something. let your guy know that its cool to include his friends sometimes when yall are hanging out together.

im pretty sure they are just jealous of you based on what you described. hopefully the guy you are seeing isnt the kind that will pick his friends over you especially if its something stupid. if he is then date someone else.. you are going to high school anyway there is plenty of fish in that sea i promise!

ps. have fun in high school dont worry about being tied down right away!!

Answer 4

His friend is jealous and thinks you are going to take his friend away, dude needs to grow up, your boyfriend has, or else he wouldn't be with you. keep ya head up..

Answer 5

let his best friend know that you are the girl friend and you are more important and will always be so step back!!!

Answer 6

just be nice to him and ignore the fact that he may or may not hat e you.. i thought my ex's best friend hated me.. turned out he secretly like me.

Answer 7

Choose not to feel guilty.  He chose you to be his girlfriend, just as he chose him to be his friend.  My only advice would be to encourage him to keep a balance.  If you hang out Friday night, encourage him to spend time with his friend of Saturday night.  This will be good for your boyfriend, and his friend may notice your effort and forget about whatever's bothering him.  Good luck!