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Question

so i have 3 best friends, 2 guys 1 girl. i dont see the girl at school though so i always hang out with the guys. lately this other guy that i think is cute and have thought about crushing on but never actually did started hanging out with us. me and him are good friends but we never hung out in the last grade. he liked me the grade b4 last and i never actually rejected him but he knew i didn't like him but i figured he was over me cause we never hung out. anyway so my guy bffs started whispering behind my back one day while the other guy was talking to me. they never keep secrets so im like hey guys whats the deal? they pulled me out of earshot of the other guy and told me they thought he liked me. it might be possible and they say its cause hes always talking to me and when i say hes talking to us they always find some way to turn things around. it all makes sense but if he does why hasn't he asked me out? is he intimidated by my bffs being guys or something? like when hes around he kinda play punches them and they say hes showing me hes tough. he makes jokes and even though everyone laughs they say hhes just trying to make me laugh. please help i just don't get it.

Answer 1

well he probably likes u ask him out hot shot

Answer 2

Well if your other friends are telling you he likes you and from what you have written it seems like he does.  As for not asking you out yet well he might be sort of shy especially if you acted like you didn't like him in the past.  Believe it or not it is not easy for us guys to ask you girls out.  Nobody likes being rejected and that can hold us back.  If you do like him you could drop little hints maybe flirt with him a bit, but only if you want him to ask you out and you are going to say yes.

Answer 3

he's trying to be friends with your guy friends to get closer than you

he likes you but he doesnt want to ask you out yet because he wants to know that you like him back before he asks you out.

rejection is sooo harsh, so he'll take his time

if you do really like him. just give him a lot of hints

and just eventually let it slip out to him that you like him

or have one of your guy friends "accidentally let it slip" that you like him when they're talking.

he'll flirt more and then ask you out. :]

Answer 4

guys are extremly weird

my suggestion to you would be to flirt with him

let him know that you like him without telling him

maybe tell you other guy friend (so that he might tell your crush!!)

good luck