10 points for longest answer does she like me should I ask her out?

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OK this girl1 likes me but I don't like her back and want to tell her just to be friends but I do like her friend2 but she won't ask me out because she thinks I like the other girl1. how do I tell girl1 nicly that I want be freinds so girl2 will maybe like me. I catch girl2 looking at me but she looks away when I look a t her. does she like me. what do I do.

!0 points I know its hard to understand but please help me

Answer 1

tell her your sorry and that you want to "just be friends" then after a couple of weeks, talk 2 girl 2 over msn or school, get to know her, then go for it.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

um just say hay girl1 i reely dont seem to like you in that way im reely sorry if i hurt you feelings i just hope we can be friends............................then go to girl2 in a couple of days after talking to girl1 and say hay whats up umm i dont want to be sooo up front about this but i like you and i was hoping we could chillaxe some day?!?! sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo... hope i helped ♥ ♥  

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Answer 5

ummmm...girl2 definately likes you..but there isn't really a nice way to tell a girl that you just want to be friends.....and you're wanting to go out with her best friend(girl1's bff)? when she likes you? that's just really mean...i had that happen to me..and i never got over it...and me and my bff aren't friends anymore now...

Check my blog out it answers this and a lot of other stuff too

http://blog.360.yahoo.com/dating_advice1...

but since i doubt you will look at it here it is....(this is about girl2)

How to Know if a Girl Likes You

Not sure what those glances, smiles and looks mean? Follow these steps and find out if she really likes you.

Steps

~Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at a normally boring or stupid joke. (Though, don't be dumb and use bad jokes as a test or you'll just look like a comedic loser.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot.

~Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hug you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you.

~Notice if she touches you more often than what friends do (she's constantly trying to touch your hand or something). If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track. But conversely, don't assume that just because she isn't touching you that she doesn't like you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself.

~Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you - which means that you should probably make the first move. If she holds the stare, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears your name.

~Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date?, Who do you like better?, Who is the hottest?, and such. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.

~Look out for the damsel in distress. If you're outside and the girl you like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweatshirt. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you like her. If there are other guys and she likes one of those guys, however, she might act disappointed when you offer yours to her first, in which case at least you'll know how she feels and can move on. Sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at something, and say that they can't do it. That is your cue to offer some assistance, and she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction.

~Smile at her. Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, say goodbye to her. She is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.

Tips

~If she constantly asks about your status with girls and asks your preference in types of girls, then she is likely fishing to see if she might meet your interests.

~If you find out that a girl likes you, don't act like she is from another planet or has the flu. Girls don't like it and their hearts can be very fragile, so be careful. Don't be mean or give her the cold shoulder because IF you do end up liking her eventually, she may not give you another chance. Also, that kind of mistake can mess up your reputation as being a good boyfriend.

Warnings

Girls might try the "jealous approach" and start flirting with your friends to make you notice them more. Be wary of these girls. If you really like her, pay more attention to her and try to get her alone - she might get the hint that you like her and stop trying so hard. And as much as you may want to...don't EVER do the same thing back. Girls are more sensitive and will probably just give up on you if you do that.

Answer 6

Well, Ive been in a simalar situation.

Tell Girl 1, "Hey, Girl 1 [idk her name], i know you really like me and all, but we dont have very much in common, so I don't think we should be together"

See how it goes with her, if it goes well, wait about a week or two and then ask Girl2, so that Girl1 doesnt think you wanted to go out with Girl2 in the first place.  =]

Answer 7

she likes u

Can u help me?

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Answer 8

go after both the girls! girls like that kinda thing.....

Answer 9

alright wow.. umm i would just let her know tha tyou would just you know want to be friends.. just like tell her that you aren't that interested in her that way.. and just want to like stay friends wid her.. as for her friend.. if you and when you let the girl1 one down give her some time and make sure that her friend is over it b4 u move on to girl1's friend... u don't want them to get all like mad at eatchother over you cuz like friendships are forever... and you don't want to mess that up cuz you could end up like losing both of them at some point... just let her down nicely...

Answer 10

Yes ask her out....

Did I win?? 10 points!!!yay

Answer 11

i would say yes girl2 realllllly likes u...u should definately ask girl2 out because it might break girl1s heart at first but eventually she will get over it...and u cant worry about wat someone else like girl1 will think of u if u tell her u dont really like her as anythingg more than a friend...it will be better for u if u just lay that aside and tell girl2 how u really feel bc if u dont then who knows wat wouldve come of u 2...and u dont need to worry about girl2 rejecting u either bc from wat u have said it sounds like she really likes u bc thats wat girls tend to do when they dont kno if the guy they like likes them 2, looking at that guy but then if he looks at them then looking down...

hope this helps u and good luckkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 12

well just be honest with them both and choose who  u wanna be with.

can u please answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...

Answer 13

lol. Not hard to understand and Longest answer is just going to make things very very opinionated and off subject. First of all, SELF PRESERVATION... You come first. Just go for what you want because in the end when all is gone you are stuck with just you. Second of all you have to think of Karma when you think of how you treat people. Do not lead this girl on, simple and plain. Be very respectful and careful of the words you choose because women are not as crazy as yall think we are...we just like you to be honest and straight forward instead of trying to play with our minds. "Im not really looking to dedicate myself to anything or anyone except school/work/making me a better person and I cant let myself get distracted" Very respectful, not putting anyone down, praising yourself, and clearly stating what you want. Do what you said you were going to do, too. Show the girl you are about something and you make sure she's about something too. Gotta take it kinda slow to get to know each other.

Answer 14

okay, you simply need to tell girl 1 that you don't like her. it may be awkward and you don't want to do it, but you have to. when you get the chance to talk to her just be like "hey, do you think i like you?" and if she says yes then say "oh, well i don't really like you like that. your more of friend to me." more then likely, girl 1 will tell her friend and they will both know. if girl 1 says no, i don't think you like me say, "okay cause i was just wondering. i like you as a friend so i didn't want to make it seem like i like you more then that."

i would say that there is a good chance that  girl 2 likes you. if she is looking at you, and then looks away when you look, it means she was staring and usually that means shes thinks your hott, or likes you.  if you want you can tell girl 2 that you don't like her friend even if girl 1 dose tell her already. that shows you really care if she knows you don't like girl 1 so you must be interested in someone else. if you want to make girl 2 like you more, flirt with her, girls love it. if she flirts back, YES, she likes you. if you want, ask her if she likes you. if she says yes, ask her out. if she says no or maybe just keep flirting. she'll come around eventually.

good luck (:

Answer 15

lol well i think you should sit down and talk to the first girl and be honest with her, tell her that you are not interested in her because you like some other girl, so you just want to be friends with her ((if she says no than wats better having me as a friend or nothing at all)) now the same thing with the second girl, be honest with her and tell her how you feel, tell her that you like her and then see how things work out! GOOD LUCK =)

Answer 16

well don't tell girl1 you like her friend.that would crush me f a guy said that to me. ask girl2 out, ad girl1 will get over it,believe me

Answer 17

LOL dont worry, its not hard to understand :p

Im sure we've all been in similar situations where the wires get crossed and people get wrong signals.

I think girl2 likes you. And shes probs not acting on it cos she think you and her friends have a thing going ;) Which you dont, so heres what i think you should do!

You should keep flirting/flirt more with girl2 so that girl1 gets the message that you dont like her in that way. Meanwhile, you can focus on impressing girl2 and letting her know that its her that you like and not her friend. Its just a attention thing. As soon as girl1 sees that your paying more attention to her friend than you are to her, im sure she'll get the message, surely shes not THAT dense :P

Just give girl1 the cold shoulder, trust me, im sure she'll get the hint that you dont fancy her at all. BUT dont actually say to her " OH by the way, I dont fancy you" cos you'd like totally destory her confidence and then her friend would think your a major jerk too. and you dont want that to happen cos your trying to impress her, remember?!

Answer 18

Why don't we just be friends and who know you may eventually like her you never know. Why dont you ask girl2 to a movie or whatever. Just be yourself and everything will work out fine. It isn't hard to understand it is pretty simple but intresting so enjoy and have fun. Thats what dating is all about besides meeting somebody new

Answer 19

you said the longest answer gets 10 points but give it to me anyway...

you should tell girl1 that you like her as a friend and you like someone else and wait for the other girl2 to act up. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...

Answer 20

so im really hoping that this problem isnt happening to me.

and its ound so familiar. i hope you dont go to Sanderson. lol

but neway girl2 probably knows you like her and she probably

likes you to. but if shes a real friend "best friend" then shes not going to act on her feelings. it would be grimmy and wrong towards girl1.

truthfully. idk. you can keep trying but like i said before if shes a good friend then shes not going to show that she likes you.

Answer 21

be honest. its always worked for me and you kind of need to put it all out on the table with this sort of situation to prevent any confusion. tell girl one you're sorry but that you like her friend. tell girl two that you told girl one this and see how she reacts.  

Answer 22

lol

Answer 23

girl 2 does like you but that fact that you are trying to make 2 jealous isn't good. that is a thing you do not want. that is not caring jealousy is just a thing that rears its ugly head and its not wanted in a real relationship. so if you like 2 and i am sure she likes you then get moving and start talking to her be around her show her you like her and that you are interested and then you should have a time when you can talk and maybe ask her out you have to be around alot and then she'll get the message and probably show that she likes you to but you have to be careful not to scare her away i am not sure but sounds like she is interested in you

Answer 24

well if they are friends you mite not wont to get in the middle because if they both like you  it will cause problems between them if you say something just wait for girl 2 to come to you:)

Answer 25

hmm... sorry, i can't think of a long answer.  there's no shortcut or anything, you just gotta tell girl1 you only like her as a friend, and you actually like girl2, but also make sure she doesn't get mad at girl2.  there's really no other way... also, make sure girl1 actually likes you, cause otherwise if you tell her that you only like her as a friend when she only likes you as a friend, you're gonna look foolish :P good luck

Answer 26

i think that you should just tell "girl1" that you only want to be friends, nothing more. if she doesn't accept it, she's stupid. if i were you, i would wait a little after you have told "girl1" that you only wanted to be friends to ask "girl2" out.

Answer 27

Ok... I think I understand! ;)

So if this girl1 hasn't asked you out just act like you have no idea she likes you. Act like your just friends - don't hug her, that totally gives the wrong idea! Ask out this girl2 becuase you like her... right?

So in general just act oblivious, don't be mean or playerish to girl1. But make sure she knows your somewhat interested in girl2.

(How you ask her out!!!!)

So buy a regular shirt and write a bunch of different words. However, "Will," "you," "go," "out," "with," "me," and your name have to be in black sharpie. Write other words in washable sharpie around it so it looks like a miss-match of jumbled words.

On the back in sharpie write "Wash Me"

She'll take it home and wash it, when it comes out of the washing machine all of the washable markers will have washed away and the sharpie will say "Will you go out with me? *-Your Name*"

Good idea?! I know!!!! If you need anything else just hollah!!

Answer 28

Should you ask out girl1? No

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Why you ask? There's nothing worse for your psychological health than to wonder "what if?"

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