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Question

my baby is 5mnts old. but his dad kept spank him, when I told him not to it, he told me, he doesn't like the baby, he will like him when he's like 2 years old but he used to love the baby. what should I do? any advice please?

Answer 1

He is out of his mind.  That is child abuse.  I'm horrified and disturbed by this.  Leave him.Please put your son before your husband in this case.

If you continue to allow this to happen you are just as bad as he is.  JUST AS GUILTY.  Be a good mother and do something about it.  You as a mother should defend your child at all cost.  He needs to realize this behavior is not okay.

Answer 2

well katty you have asked this question 5 times in one day.......and I am not sure this is really happening to you.....but if it ever did happen i would say call the police.you should make your questions private so you can make up situations when ever you want.

Answer 3

spanking a 5 month old baby wow that guy has serious issues and if he does not like the baby why did he get the baby in the first place makes no sense to me i think someone should talk some sense in to the person who is spanking that 5 month old baby this should not happen.

Answer 4

Don't sound like much of a father to me. He can't not like him now and then just start liking him when he gets older. It sounds like he doesn't want to take care of a baby.

Answer 5

you should talk to him and see what he does

Answer 6

kick him out

Answer 7

I'm sorry, but that is totally unexceptable. What if your out and he hurts your baby severly. That is shaken baby waiting to happen. A five month old doesn't know what they are doing wrong. I would give leave him. Sorry for being blunt. But, put yourself in your baby's place. how do you think that baby feels. your babbies daddy is a scum bag.

Answer 8

Thats a weird dude then

Crazy m**o

i never heard about someone that didnt liked their child at a time, and they they did

Leave Him!!

have a nice day

Answer 9

You do not spank a 5 month old baby! Your baby can NOT protect himself. YOU are his protector. Personally I'd take my child and leave, but I know that's easier said than done. You need to figure out what you need to do. Do not leave that child alone with his father, or allow him contact when he seems angry. Good luck!

Answer 10

try to figure out if your husband is on any drugs or something and try giving the baby it's own room with a lock (a key lock) and keep the to ur self  you could also ask his friends if he's been acting weird around them too or if hes on drugs......im just giving you an idea and i hope i could help ...and good luck!! : )

Answer 11

You can't spank a baby!!! That is child abuse and he could go to jail for that. Tell him to knock it off or you're calling the cops!!!

Answer 12

GIRL! THATS CHILD ABUSE!!!

Answer 13

WTF.

HOW CAN HE NOT LIKE HIS BABY. TALK TO HM AND TELL HIM YOU'LL CALL SOCIAL SERVICE IF HE DOESN'T MAN UP.

Answer 14

dont let the baby be around him

any dad who doesnt like his child shouldnt be around it

Answer 15

are you serious?? wow you picked a winner. dump him and get child custody and STOP ASKING THE SAME QUESTION

Answer 16

why would anyone spank a 5 month old? What wrong can a 5 month old do? I mean please, if this is a real question just ditch the guy, he's a loser!!!!

EDIT: OMG how many times are you going to ask this same question? You asked it like 5 times yesterday.

Answer 17

keep the baby AWAY from him at all costs. your child's health is in your hands

Answer 18

Don't leave him with the child at ALL. It's your job as a mother to protect your baby. You should call CPS.

Answer 19

I am not a mother, but I don't think a 5 month old baby should be hit.  I would be quick to say to leave him....I don't know your situation, you might just forgive him and stay with him.  I would suggest making sure he is not around the baby.  Just because it's an innocent child! Babies can't express themselves, I don't know your ages, but I do realize that a baby can be very overwhelming! Still a baby should not be hit.  If he hits him now at 5 months old what makes you think he wont hit the baby at age 2 when he is running around with his terrible two's?  

So sorry, but I feel you need to keep your baby away from him.....

Answer 20

Are you seriously asking what you should do about your husband spanking your 5 month old? Really?  Wow. The answer seems pretty obvious to me!

Answer 21

kick his *** out!

omg !

Answer 22

get the baby away from the dad, seriously. sounds like the start of something possibly terrible

Answer 23

As a parent we can not choose when to "like" our children.  Sure when they are little, they cry alot and can't play, but to just come right out and say that he doesn't like your baby is pretty hurtful and makes me believe that he doesn't deserve to be a father.

Spanking a 5 month old is unacceptable.  The child just not have the cognitive ability to understand right from wrong, so punishing a child at that age is pretty stupid.

Perhaps your husband should go to a parenting class to better associate himself with more effective parenting skills and gain some knowledge on babies.

Answer 24

Spank the dad. Teach him how to love his son.

Answer 25

Girlfriend.....you need to get sole custody of that child and keep that child away from him.  No one should spank a 5 months old.  Come on now.

Answer 26

u should leave him seriously who beats there child at 10 months that will not resolve anything kick his *** OUT!!!!

Answer 27

first of all, not to be rude, but your babies father is terrible to say that he doesn't love his child.  and by the way, that is abuse to spank it. I'm sorry, but hitting is wrong. especially to a child no matter what mistakes it makes. what is your developing child learning? that he or she should punish people by physically abusing them?  and FYI saying that your babies father will love it later does not justify the means. it doesn't make the fact that he doesn't love his child okay.  I'm sorry, but this needs to stop.  take a stand for YOUR child and tell his father to step off.