10 points to first best answer...please help? :'( guy problems?

Question

I've liked this guy for about 10 months now, and about 4 months ago, he started going out with this girl. Before that though, he kept trying to make me like him even more (like that's possible). Like one time when we were walking home from our bus stop, he stopped all of a sudden and I think he was expecting me to trip and accidentally hug him or something, because he couldnt think of anything to say when I didn't trip. But I didn't realize it then. I just realized it recently, but now it's too late because he has a girlfriend. I heard they're still together, and now I'm getting a little scared that they're never going to break up. What's worse is that my crush only likes his GF because she's popular, and she only likes him back because he's hot. Which he is, but I like him for his personality. I just can't get the memories of the things my crush and I did together out of my head. Like a few times, our faces got sooo close to eachother...and I just can't get that sight out of my head!!! We're going into 7th grade this year. And my crush has a twin brother, and i recently started having a very minor crush on his brother, too. My crush's brother is single, but one or two of my besties like my crush's brother. Sorry if this is confusing, I just don't know what to do anymore because this whole crush-has-a-girlfriend thing is making me sad and I'm not sure if I should go any farther with his brother because i don't wanna lose my besties over a guy...but i still really like my crush as like a BGF (best guy friend) AND a crush..help me!!!

Answer 1

Basically, there isn't much you can do.

maybe, you should confront your crush about how you feel,

it may not change anything, but theres always a chance it could.

Whatever you do, DON'T go out with his brother ! it will

officially get rid off all of your chances !

andd, this popular girl seems like shes going to have problems finding love in the future if shes only looking for looks.

its the personality that counts :)

Answer 2

you have a choice sit there and be misrable, or go and talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he feels towards you. Then at least you will know the truth, and then you can decide what you want to do. forget him, stay in limbo, or go find another boy.

the choice is all yours, which are you going to do?

Answer 3

You should tell him that you like him and see what he says. Or hint to him that you like him. Cause in the seventh grade, relationships don't last very long. And if he only likes her cause shes popular...well, you do that math. But you should tell him how you feel, even though it may be awkward, you'll regret it if you don't!

Answer 4

just let it go if he likes you he would be with you.BTW I was supposed to be the first answerer but I couldn't get it to submit.

Answer 5

make him jealous silly!date his brother and secretly tell ur friends why ur dating his brother and they wont get mad srry if this is a suckish answer im just trying to get more points but hoped i helped!

Answer 6

Well, since your crush has a boyfriend already, maybe you should focus on his brother or someone else. He doesn't seem like a very nice guy if he only likes a girl cause she's popular.

Or maybe you should try being more mysterious or independent..that way more boys will want to come to you instead of you having to go to them.

Answer 7

you guys are only going in to the 7th grade.. I think you should wait until you're in high school to be dating. It's really nice you like him for his personality but boys his age don't understand all about that and go for what they like at that moment. Just wait and see.

good luck.

Answer 8

youre in the seventh grade. relationships at that age typicall dont last very lng. you cant bethe other girl, the one that a guy breaks up with his girlfriend for, that would be unfair to the other girl. youre out of luck for now just wait until they break up, who knowsthey could actually like each other and it would be wrong to ruin their "happiness"

Answer 9

im in the same situation as you.......

maybe try to just talk to him and build up a great friendship, that way he'll know your personality and realise that you're the one he should be with.

good luck in 7th grade, im in it too and its heaps of fun!

Answer 10

Don't worry, 99.9% chance it wont last. I mean, it's 7th grade. Give it a few weeks at most, and they'll break up...then, just tell him how you feel, and let things go from there...

Answer 11

WELL IF UR IN DA 7th GRADE RELATIONSHIPS DONT LAST LONG U COULD ALWAYS WAIT OR JUST STOP CRUSHIN ON HIM BUT HIS BROTHER JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE CUZ UR FRIENDS SHOULD COME B4 A GUY

Answer 12

My advice - be honest with your original "crush" tell him how you feel.

How do you know if he REALLY likes this girl perhaps he just got involved with this girl because he didnt think he'd have a chance with you. I know it seems like the world is ending and he is all you care for and think about but remeber everything always happens for a reason. As for his twin brother I wouldnt go there, first of all it's disrepectful to your friends and if you really care about this guy you wouldnt go after his brother just to spite him.  

Answer 13

I would say that you like your friend who has a girlfriend not his brother.  it is also really stupid to loose one of your best friends over a guy so don't take it any farther with the brother.Especially if your going in to 7th grade witch is middle school in my city you need as many friends as you can get.  and if you really think that the relationship between your crush and his girlfriend is that shallow then tell him how you feel.  It seems like he will say he likes you too.  :)

Answer 14

Really a good job explaining it all. My advice right now is to just relax as it seems you are really wound up. Let it all play out. In other wards, do nothing. The universe will take care of what is suppose to happen. No kidding.

Answer 15

Hi, it is a crush exactly as you have said. You and he did not take things further before he had a girlfriend, maybe he was not going to. But now you have to accept he is dating someone and you have to concentrate on your studies and enjoy having friends. If you let this crush enter your thoughts all the time, you will never move on and it will affect your education. Look at him, it is not affecting his education is it? he has moved on.

There is someone for everyone in this life, you just have to be patient to find the right one. Maybe his relationship wont last, he may well come to you but dont glorify in the fact that the relationship did not work out, be sympathetic. If however his relationship lasts, well let it go. Leave the brother, after all you will be only dating him to be close to your crush, that is not a good idea. As I said, concentrate on friends, study and then things happen as they will

Answer 16

Well maybe try talking to him, you know what try following your heart and if he wont go out with your or anything then i guess hes not the one and hey ur only in 7th grade you have a long way to look for someone..trust me i know

Answer 17

it depends if u wanna go out with someone now date the brother of ur crush but if u can wait date the crush cuz u like him more soo i say u should wait for ur crush

Answer 18

idk..thats  a very complicated situation...the rule is friends b4 guys so...but i mean u could ask his brother what he thinks of u..and there twins so they are bound to look the same..lol...j/k....but as for the first guy there is every possibility that they could break up....i would tell him that u really like him for his personality and looks are just a bonus

Answer 19

You are going into seventh grade. Stop beating yourself up over a guy. Save that for college or something.

But if you really want help with this you should just tell him that you like him as more than a friend and it doesn't matter if he doesn't feel the same way as long as you can stay friends. If he feels the same way he'll dump her *** for you.