12 year old brother leaving s***n in his sheets every morning?

Question

I´m 18 and have a 12 year old brother. Me, my mother and my brother live together. My father doesn´t live with us. Fresh s***n started to appear almost every morning on my brother´s sheets.

He sleeps in just his underwear so he maybe ejaculating into his sheets while in his sleep or maybe the s***n comes from him masturbating. We don´t know. My mother is tired of constantly changing sheets, and both she and I think we should talk to my brother about it and try to find a way to prevent so much s***n ending up on the sheets. We just don´t know how to talk to him without embarrassing him. How do you deal with this? If you have teen sons or brothers you probably had to deal with this too. Do you just keep washing the sheets and tell the boy´s nothing about it?

Answer 1

He is probably having wet dreams, about that age it starts to happen time for "the talk"

Answer 2

If it is happening often it's not wet dreams. That only happens infrequently when the supply of s***n builds up and is not released some other way.

Someone should talk to him. First telling him that masturbation is normal and you all do it and confirm with him that he is doing it. Then you can approach the linen problem.

Some guys use tissues,  but I would recommend a wash cloth, hand towel, old tee shirt or....? Whatever is used doesn't need to be washed everyday. It drys by the next night and can be stashed under his bed. That way nobody is keeping track of how often he does and he doesn't need to feel spied on.

He probably will be somewhat embarrassed, but in the long run it may help him to be more comfortable going to one of you in future when sexual questions or problems come up.

This may be more info than you wanted, but I hope it is helpful

Answer 3

Maybe you have an Uncle that can talk to him so it's not so embarrassing to him.  If not just talk to him and don't be judgmental or pointing fingers.  It is most likely from masturbation but it's normal and most boys do it at this age.  I would offer suggestions on maybe using a towel or possible doing it in his undies to keep it from getting on his sheets.  I think he is just experimenting with his body because he is curious and maybe due to his hormones he is horny alot.

Answer 4

He wouldn't be having wet dreams that frequently, so he's undoubtedly masturbating in bed every night.  

You don't really have to change the sheets every day just because there's dried s***n in them.  It won't hurt anything, except that it tends to bet germy and smelly after a while, of course, like after a few days.  In college, the dorm sheets only get laundered every week.  And the protein in s***n tends to stain cotton sheets whether it gets washed right away or not.

Someone has to bite the bullet and talk to him about it, whoever is least embarrassed by the subject (you can't afford to be concerned about HIS embarrassment, he'll get over it anyway).  He should be taking a special towel or extra pillowcase to bed with him and ejaculating into that, AND taking responsibility for washing it out regularly (again, germs and smell).  Much easier to wash out a small towel than the bed sheets.

Answer 5

well since your the big brother i would mention it to him but hay at least you know hes loaded

Answer 6

put towels on the bed lol..

no but seriously he cant help doing it, & even

if u talk to him it wont make him be able to stop,

he'll grow out of it..

Answer 7

Eww yea hes in the masterbating stage thats a touchy subjest to talk about though

Answer 8

Wet dreams inside the underwear don't usually seap through to the sheets.  Most likely, this is from masturbation.  At the time, you don't even consider where it's going.  Afterward, you fall asleep and figure it will dry by morning.

Result, crusty sheets.

One of you should have a talk with him.  He may have a lot of questions.  Let him know masturbation is ok, but the mess isn't.  Suggest paper towels, damp washrag, sock, something to ejaculate on.  

In the remote chance his p***s is coming out of the underwear during a wet dream, suggest a different style of undies (not boxers).

Answer 9

This is a hard subject to talk to a boy that age as they are so shy about there Private areas as i too have an 11 ys son.I see him sometimes at night touching that area but i say nothing as he would die of embarrassment i am sure.You could say that from now on you and your brother have to do their own laundry  and maybe after that he will be aware what's happening..good luck

Answer 10

You should first of all. ask him what that is and where its coming from. [like you didnt already know]. && Based on his answer, talk to him. x ]

Hope i helped. =D