12 yr olds having s*x?

Question

i'm 12yr old.My bff had s*x with his girlfriend.Do you think it's ok?His parents are drunks and are never home.I tried telling them but they didn't even care.What should i do?

Answer 1

I think you should leave him alone you have tryed all that you can I think that is discusting but thats just me

Answer 2

i went through sorta the same thing =/

by best girlfriend and my best guy friend had oral and they told me after it happened i tried telling her its gross we are only twelve but she just said its different we're in love and you know how it ended...they broke up after she gave him over 25 blow jobs and she still thinks he REALLY loved her

ha. you should tell them there in over their heads and kinda make fun of them getting pregnant and scare them bout what could happen.... in the end there's nothing you could do there going to do whatever they want if you tell your parents the only thing that will happen is you loosing a friend

Answer 3

I think you should first go to your parents. I think the school counselor would be a good person as well. I think your friend is in terrible trouble at home. You have an opportunity to be a very good friend by saving this child from his home. He is most likely having s*x to make up for the neglect he is suffering at home. Please don't wait. Your friend needs your help ASAP.

Answer 4

you need to tell your mom. they are way to young to be having s*x!!

Answer 5

Be true to yourself! I do not think it's ok to be anything other than yourself!

Answer 6

12 YEARS OLD????

more not-even-teenage pregnancies...

Answer 7

um that's disgusting.

12 year olds?

No.

Answer 8

12 is too young for s*x... there are way too many things that can happen... STD's, babies- to name a few of the immediate issues.  We are talking lifelong complications emotionally here. 12 yr olds need to be 12- sports, music, schoolwork, and FRIENDS-without benefits.

You need to tell your parents... about everything.  A responsible adult should call child services. This kid is crying out for help in all the wrong ways.  It could ruin his life.

Good Luck- you are a good friend to worry so much.

Answer 9

Of course it is not okay! I'm not that much older than you and I can't imagine anyone my age having s*x with anybody! You should tell your Mom and the local children safety place. You should also tell child protective services about his parents whoever puts drinking before their kids is a monster! Having s*x at such a young age will lead to much more worse than that!

Answer 10

let your parents know they can help alot they know best

Answer 11

It's a sad thing when you think about it. They are only hurting their bodies and their futures. s*x is for mature adults, not kids. Tell your friend how you feel, maybe you can show them that there are better things to do than have s*x.

Answer 12

NO IT SO IS NOT OK!! Trust me ...at that age..the body is not mentally developed enough emotionally to handle it. There has been a lot of research about the brain development and humans are not meant to have multiple s*x partners...Ever wonder why people never forget their first! Its because the brain builds new segments that come with that new feeling etc.  you should really talk to your BFF and really really tell them its not cool. It really is opening a lot doors to unwelcome future. Try looking into al-teen meetings! Do it for you BFF! They have a lot of issues having drunk parents.

Answer 13

There isn't really anything you can do. If you already talked to him about it and he doesn't care then its his decision to make. Just be an example and wait. I didn't have s*x until I was 18 and I still don't think I was ready for it. I am still with my first. but having a baby is hard. Tell him that if he doesn't want to be a dad he should really stop.

Answer 14

As long as it isn't you try but don't get them mad at you if you want to stay friends  tell her you are free to babysit anytime that will get her attention

Answer 15

that is sooooo not ok u need to tell them how wrong it is to do that and some facts that they could get

Answer 16

Probably not the best thing to be doing with their time but as long as they are doing it safely I really can't complain. Also, you take your time and wait till you are good and ready. Don't have s*x just because your friend did...

Answer 17

You really can't do anything... Just don't join the crowd... Not YET... Wait......

Answer 18

HERE IS A IDEA

CALL CHILD SERVICES

OR JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE

IT'S THERE PROBLEM NOT YOURS

Answer 19

How about mind your own business and stop being jealous. Just because you can't get laid doesn't mean he shouldn't. You can never be too young for s*x.

Answer 20

dont do itt he will just use u..

Answer 21

all you can do is tell your parents. its not your fault your friend is having s*x at 12, dont feel responsable for it.

Answer 22

mention it to a teacher that you really trust and they will handle it (hopefully)

you sound like a good friend with an intelligent and mature mind. learn from others mistakes so that you will become a better person and a role model to others.

in the meantime I would suck up any backlash from my friend if they found out that it was you that turned them in even though anything you say to the adult is totally confidential and say you were only looking out for their best interest cuz you care and thats all.

good luck to you

Answer 23

department of community services would be interested to know. his parents dont deserve kids if all they do is drink. my parents put their social life before their kids and i think its disgusting. your friend could end up ruining his life and his girlfriends. it is too young to be having s*x. i have a 12 year old son, he is interested in girls of course, but not having s*x. it is way too young. i would get in touch with community services so your friend doesnt end up like his parents or worse. and letting your parents know would be the first thing to do. let them decide how to approach the parents or the law

Answer 24

well their isn't really anything you can do you can tell them stop and hope they listen but you know if she gets pregnant she kinda desreves it... you can tell an adult if you are really worried

Answer 25

please don't have s*x, your friend should not be even thinking about s*x.  My goodness.  What is this world coming to.  You need to tell your mom and have her help deal with the situation, if your friends parents don't care enough.  She also need to be couseled to by someone, therapist, physcologist, someone.  That is disturbing!!!