13? should she do it?

Question

a friend of mine told me that she wanted to have s*x and a guy asked her if she wanted to and she said yes. as a good friend should I tell her not to cause she might get pregnat? or should I let her do it? she hasn't done it yet but her parents doesnt know either. just me and another friend. what should I do? and I know its not up to me but what should I do?

Answer 1

no. 13 year olds arent mature enough to deal with the emotional side of s*x. and she'll regret it in a few years.

Answer 2

Tell her how u feel about her doing this and if she still insists on having s*x talk to her about going on the pill, and tell her to USE PROTECTION!!!!! good luck hunny

Answer 3

Um, no? She's 13! 13! Wait until 16, when it is legal, AT LEAST.

Answer 4

ummm.......tell her to wait

Answer 5

as a great friend you should tell her all the facts about s*x and how to protect herself.

make sure she is doing because she wants to.

this site can help you explain

http://plannedparenthood.org

think about it what would you want if you were in her shoes and knew what she knew?

Answer 6

If your her friend you'll tell her its a bad idea but it is her desicion. Don't tell her parents about it, she may end up being really angre at your for that.

She is thirteen she's bearly a teenager. Shes pretty much still a kid. You need to tell her the risk and that she will probley end up regreting it. I don't know how well she knows this guy, but if shes not in love with him, which i doubt she is, she will defentily regret it.

god luck and god bless

Answer 7

Ohh...

Why does she want to? Ask her that.

In my opinion, nope she shouldn't. She's 13! 3 years ago she was 10. She's still a baby, no matter how much she hates to hear it.

Is she ready to possible become pregnant? Have to go through the emotional bullshi* that comes with it? Does she fully understand it? Is she only doing it to make this guy like her?

So many questions, but they all need answers. And that's only the tip of the ice burg.

Having lost my virginity at 13, I most certainly wouldn't recommend it. She'll be known as the school bike, and suddenly, like magic, SO many horny 13 year old guys will want to be her best friend. Not something she wants.

Basically, she shouldn't do it. She should wait until she's in a loving relationship, that DOES have a future. You shouldn't be exposed to such things at 13...

Answer 8

-Tell her how you feel.

-Show her statistics of how many teens end up pregnant, with STD's so she sees the risks shes taking at such a young age (shes a child!)

-Tell her the regret she may experience later or how this can honestly lead her to heart break (usually girls get attached to the first guy they do it with)

-and tell her about protection because if she doesn't listen she should at least be informed about protection.

BEST OF LUCK

Answer 9

Its your friends decision if she wants to have s*x with this guy but tell her to use protection but like if u want to stop herr from doing it then u shuld cuz 1st of all shes ruining her life by doing this and 2nd she culd get pregnant and is this guy like just a random guy? pluss i dont think its her boyfriend so...

yeh..

hope i helped.

Answer 10

no, let her get pregnant and s***w up her life so she can come on here and ask us what to do cause she hasn't told her parents yet.

HELLO? TELL HER PARENTS if you don't you'll be as much irresponsible as she is, and if she does get pregnant, you'll feel guilty for not telling her parents BEFORE she did it. YOU telling her isn't going to do anything.

( ~ 8*

Answer 11

okay shes only 13 remind her that its illegal and that she still has like the rest of her life ahead of her

adn that as soon as u have s*x with one guy all the rest of your bf will want you to have s*x with them

and that its her body and she shouldnt get pregnant

and like shes jsut going to get a really bad reputation that she will never be able to get rid of and at 13 any guys who are expecting s*x are d**k heads

Answer 12

If she's so d**n stupid, let her learn on her won mistakes. Next news are going to be that she's pregnant...Don't mix in.

Tell her to m********e, it's much safer.

If she's not ready for a baby, she's not ready for s*x. Remember: s*x=reproduction. Fun of it is not all that s*x is for. So if you have s*x, nature thinks that you are trying to become pregnant... For sake, understand that you little stupid girl (your friend)!