13 year old boy with a girl problem help me now!?

Question

well i am 13 years old and i have this problem its a long story but ill make it short

well i met this girl in my school last year and i went out with her like 3 times well then we broke up and did not go out again she started liking other boys and stuff well shes those girls that don't really go out with boys she is always single and stuff

me and her are really good friends but i was chatting with her yesterday and i told her i was moving and then she said she is gonna cry and stuff well then she wrote me a message and this was what it said

*I got something to ask you. I've been thinking about it a lot for some reason. Do you still like me?>.<

and i don't no what to tell her well i don't even no if i don't like her or if i like her i am confused

well my cousin said to say i do like her because maybe she would like me

but i dont no o there is something else that gets me thinking she turn bi a month ago

well please help me

please try to answer these questions

*should i say i like her or not

*is there away that i could ask her and find out if she likes me

*is it OK for a straight boy to go out with a bi girl

*o and what does this mean >.<

o and remember i am not sure if she likes me and she could just be asking this question please answer

best answer could get the best answer thingy

Answer 1

ok first off... i think the reason she&#039;s asking you this is because she still kind of likes you and she can&#039;t get over you. why else would she be thinking about you a lot? i don&#039;t know her at all, but i know that when i&#039;m thinking about my exes, it&#039;s because i miss them.

so... i&#039;m just guessing that you would like her if you found out for sure that she liked you, right? she&#039;s probably the same way. i think she likes you a bit, but if she found out that you liked her she&#039;d like you even more. i think you should say you still like her.

or if you&#039;re not sure, don&#039;t answer her question at all. instead ask her if she likes you and see what she says. she most likely won&#039;t tell you yes or no, but her answer will probably hint towards whether she likes you or not. if it sounds like she likes you, then tell her you like her. if she says she was &quot;just wondering&quot; or something, i think you should tell her you like her anyway and see what happens. personally i&#039;m convinced that she likes you.

but if you&#039;re not sure if you like her or not, maybe you don&#039;t. you probably just want to have a girlfriend. if the fact that she&#039;s bi bothers you then don&#039;t go out with her. if you&#039;re wondering what other people are going to say about you going out with a bi girl, don&#039;t worry about it. the whole point to being bi is liking boys and girls, so it&#039;s not weird to go out with a bi girl.

Answer 2

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Don&#039;t worry about it. Think of it this way little dude. You&#039;re 13, what are the odds that you&#039;ll be dating the same girl you&#039;re dating now when you&#039;re 20? You&#039;re not going to marry any of these girls, so don&#039;t stress.

Also, girls your age are indecisive when it comes to relationships. It basically means they can&#039;t just pick something and keep it, they always want more.

Now to answer your questions...

I&#039;ll answer this question at the end.

If you wanna find out if she likes you, be subtle about it, don&#039;t be too direct. Just casually bring it up in a conversation. If you know there&#039;s no chemistry between you two, just let it go.

It&#039;s okay for a guy to go out with a bi girl BUT... Here&#039;s the thing, girls your age will do anything for attention, and I really believe she&#039;s making it up that she&#039;s bisexual, a lot of very young girls do that to make guys like them (you know what I mean lol).

&gt;&lt; is kind of an internet emoticon like :-) but it can mean a lot of things. Just picture someone&#039;s expression like &gt;&lt; and you&#039;ll know what it means depending on what they say. In her case, it would just mean she&#039;s stressed about it.

So to sum things up... Since you&#039;re moving, you can&#039;t have a relationship with her. For god&#039;s sake trust me on this one man, I&#039;ve seen it happen like a million times with my friends when I was 13 (I&#039;m 17 now, so I&#039;m not some old guy haha). They just DO NOT work out. Think about it... You would have to drive a long way to see her, the only way to contact her would be on messenger or the phone, and if there&#039;s no real dates or anything, the relationship becomes weak, and eventually one of you will just be too tempted to cheat on the other partner.

So in this situation, you gotta be very careful.. No girl deserves to have her heart broken unless she cheats. Tell her you still like her, but you can&#039;t be in a relationship with her because you&#039;re moving and it will be just too difficult for you to maintain a relationship. That way she&#039;ll still know you like her, even though she&#039;ll still be sad about you moving.

The best advice I ever heard was that teenage relationships don&#039;t work out 99% of the time, but it&#039;s good practice! lol.

So don&#039;t get too stressed about relationships at your age man. Relax. =) And be yourself around girls, don&#039;t be fake.

Answer 3

look,im a 13 year old girl.

find out for sure about how you feel..

do you think about her?

how do you feel when you&#039;re around her?

make sure so that you&#039;re not giving her mixed signals.

it&#039;s only fair.

if you like her but want to know if she likes you..

ask..uh,well,do you like me?

it gives the hint that your interested but it&#039;s not as direct and forward.

&amp; yes it&#039;s fine to go out with a bi girl if you&#039;re straight.

she&#039;s still a girl and if u like each other..who cares?

just keep in mind that you&#039;ll have to trust her even more.

because shes attracted to both.*

&amp; &gt;.&lt; is just a cute little face.it could mean flirty,serious..w/e

it&#039;s just a cute smiley.

she probably likes you.

if she didn&#039;t like you she would probably avoid the subject altogether.

try observing her closely to see how she acts around you.

hope i helped.

xoxo~

&lt;3 feriell

Answer 4

Quit worrying, you are way to young.  Have fun in school and the heckk with the girls..They can just cause you problems and give you many heartaches right now..

Answer 5

Obviously you DO like her, otherwise you&#039;d not be obsessing about this girl like you are! :D

I&#039;m going to answer in the context of  &quot;it&#039;s not the end of the world if it goes wrong at age 13 - you have a long time to have fun here&quot;.

To answer as best I can:

1) Only you can answer that. If you like her, say it. Be a man. But do pick your time, of course. Blurting it out like an idiot in the middle of an important gathering will get you nowhere.

If you don&#039;t like her, don&#039;t.

2) But uncertainty is half the fun, son! Thrill of the chase, etc.

Do not stress over this. Play the game, but be cool about it. Ask questions that you think will get the answers you need to hear. If it works out, good. If it goes wrong, it&#039;s a lesson learned.

3)Yes, it&#039;s ok for a straight guy to go out with a bi girl, as long as you all know what it is you want out of the thing before you go into it. But that&#039;s entirely up to the two in question to decide for themselves.

4) &gt;.&lt; I think is like a headache, or a stressful situation, or sometimes even an &quot;oh no, I messed up&quot;. I think, anyway. Depending on what you&#039;re using it for.  I mean, look at the arrangement, the kind of face it is, and imagine the sort of thing you&#039;d use it for.

I hope that this helps you at all.

Either way, the bottom line is: you&#039;re still young, so don&#039;t stress too much.