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13 years old, dad makes me suicidal..?

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my whole life my dad has been a complete jerk to me. he has never taken me seriously and always makes fun of me for being fat, even though he's about twice my size. he and i rarely talk that much and when he does talk to me it's about how much i **** things up.

today he and my little sister started making fun of me saying i have no friends, and i told him to **** off and he came in my room, threw me on my bed and started punching me. i now can't stop thinking of suicide and i already told him i'm suicidal. he doesn't care.

my mom is the only person i can really talk to and she basically tells me to just deal with it.

i can't move out cause i'm 13 and i don't know what to do.. help! :(

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  1. what you need to do like now is call 911 and tell them your dad is hitting you and you will be able to get out of there. but the bad thing is. You might have to go to the orphanage. (idk how to spell it) but you shouldn't have to deal with it. Good luck and please be careful!!!! and don't forget suicide is one thing that you can't take back. Please don't do it. Please call someone and get help!


  2. Dear Easy

    Please don't consider suicide because it will brake your mum"s heart.Are you hurt?If so call 911.Do your school have a counselor?If you school have speak to the counselor and get advice from him.From now on try to stop getting upset when your dad teases you,the more you get upset and angry the more he's going to tease you,rather avoid conflict with your dad.E=mail Luger he really is a very good listener and has helped me.

    I will be praying for you

    Annabo

  3. ummm... my dad is sorta like that but he doesn't make fun of me..he just yells at me....i can't do anything right..(i'm always wrong)...and sometimes he yells at me sooo much, i think of how much better it would be to be dead..but i always gert over it...

    move in with a distant relative(aunt, uncle, grandmother,etc.) or go on a diet so they have no reason to make fun of you...sorry for not helping much

  4. TELL A TRUSTED ADULT ASAP!!!!! This is very dangerous and needs to be taken care of! Please, please don't commit suicide!

  5. At the age of 16 I tried to hang myself while my folks were at work. It didn't work. I ended up passing out, but lived. A year later I met a friend through my sister, and he really helped me, and one of the things he told me was that half of depression is choice.

    Your situation sucks, and your mom is obviously scared, so you need to get someone else involved. Child Protective Services is a good place to start, or your police department for your town. Things will only get worse with your dad if you wait too long, but don't take your life. There is so much more out there to see, and trust me, I am now so glad I am still here.

  6. There are a number of places to get help, and you need to get it right now.  You are too smart and valuable a person, and we need as many of people like you as we can get.  A suicide hotline (you can find them in the phone book or on line) is one place.  A school counselor should hear about the abuse, so that you can be taken to a place you will be safe.  And don't for one second think that things will not get better, because they will.  

  7. email me at zemachineluger@yahoo.com

    and tell me what state and city your in, I'm calling child services, don't worry, ital be fine, but if you don't want me to call, at least tell a counselor or the principle at your school, at lunch go to one of their offices and go to this question on their computer, don't let them talk to your father tho unless they can guarantee that you wont be near him for a long time,

    im really sorry to hear about this, and i dont much like the way your mother is acting about it. its really sad, so please, get back to me so i can try to help, and if he checks your computer, go to tools and then clear private data, so he wont know you made this question

    then ,in case he is good with computers, go to tools again and click options, then click show cookies and delete the cookies for yahoo answers or delete all of them.

    i hope sincerely that i can help. good luck ,and im hear for you, also, look up annabo, im sure she can help you

    she helped me , and i helped her too, i dont know how old she is, probably in her 20's but im 13, so i may not be as good of a help, plus she's been through way more than both of us. im sure she could help.

    she is a good woman,


  8. Please take care of yourself and don't even consider suicide.  That is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.  You will one day be out of that house and able to put your family out of your life if you so choose.  Hitting you is absolutely unacceptable and you need to tell an adult, someone at school who is not biased like your mother.  They can take you out of that house and put you in foster care or something.  Think about all of your great qualities - look, you are a great speller and well written!  

  9. he threw you on your bed and started punching you go to a school conselor and talk to them about your suicidal thoughts and how your dad makes fun of you and how he puched you (and any other physical pain)  

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