13 years old.. constantly getting kicked out?

Question

Honestly. My father lives with my grandmother, and I've gotten kicked out about 10 times this year to go back to my mother.

Wanna know the same exact reasons I got kicked out every time?

I wanted to do the laundry, because everytime my grandmother did the laundry she put bleach stains in them.

I NEVER disrespect my grandmother.

I just don't appreciate my clothes being ruined.

Now I'm getting kicked out of my mother's house for the most stupidest reason..

She caught me hanging with an old friend of mine, who happpens to be a girl the same age as me.

It was in walking distance, and mom knew I was going to see her.

Mom has been a drug addict since she was 20.

And my dad has had anger probems since forever.

I'm so tired of not having a normal family..

I dont know what to do

Honestly, I'd rather get grounded than constantly have to pack like this.

I'd even take a beating and get it over with..

I'm too afraid to talk to someone because I know my parents would get their way in the end and i'd have it alot worse.

Funny, though, how things were actually WORSE than this before they split up.

Answer 1

If your mom is a drug addict and your dad has anger problems you need to tell someone.  You are only 13 they can't keep treating you this way.  Tell a teacher or an aunt.

Answer 2

Talk to your councelor at school when it starts. You need a stable home. Good Luck!

Answer 3

If you contact authorities or DCFS, they won't get their way.  They do what they can to do what is in the best interest of the child.  If your mom has a drug problem, then that is a pretty serious issue.  Try talking to a teacher or counselor.

Answer 4

Is there an Aunt or Uncle you can go live with? You need to get yourself into a stable environment.

Good luck!

Answer 5

dude u should tell the cops! im 13 too, and it would kill me if i was treated that way!  

Answer 6

Well if you want to report them involve social services.. you might be removed from both homes for a temparory situation? or find a close family member and have them help you out.. either way best of luck!

And define Normal? I don't think anyone's family life is normal they just tend to hide it better.

Answer 7

if you contact Child Protective Services you could end up as a foster child but at your age if you can contact an attorney you can become emancipated and get a job and support yourself (and sometimes they let you receive child support payments from your parents) but if you can handle it do it get a studio apartment or rent a room. Or see about staying at a friends house.

Answer 8

I think what you should do is take them to court and tell the court what's going on and the court can make it so that you get your own place and everything and then you wouldn't have to go through this anymore. I'm not sure what they call that though but it can be done