14 Year old best friend, cheating with her Uncle?! Please help!?

Question

Okay, my best friend (we are both 14!) and I have known each other since we were five and even though I've moved away from where I used to live we're still close and text each other. I invited her up to my new house for three days and we went shopping and stuff but she was always texting someone. I know that we have different friends and go to different school but I though it was pretty rude of her texting all the time when she was at my house!

But I saw over her shoulder that she had got a message from HENRY who is her UNCLE!

But last weekend I went down to see her because she was having a birthday sleepover and all her friends and people I knew were there and we had great fun but I couldn't help but see how much she FLIRTED with her uncle. She was wearing a short dress and always flashed her knickers and giggled at him all the time and when they were playing twister, it just made me cringe.

Her Aunt is her Mums sister so she’s not related to him or anything and its not incest, but its still cheating. She used to say how her aunt was mean to her and is rude about her but I reckon that she’s jealous of her aunt. Her aunt and uncle have a little girls and a new baby boy too.

What do I do? My friend is so serious about him but secretive. Her background on her cell is of her and her uncle, he texts her 24/7 and I know he calls her babe, hes 42, I think she has pictures of him and her spoils her by giving her money and alcopops!

I think its wrong, she stealing her aunts husband! She also carries condoms! I mean she 14! I would never do something like this!

She also had that implant thing in your arm where you dont have a period.

What can I do?

Please help!

Answer 1

Tell her that you figured it out and you know her secret. Don't chastise her or she won't confide in you. Just tell her you think she needs a good friend to talk to and you want to help her and talk about what is "right".

Above all else, let her know you are her friend and you will be there to listen because when all of this is found out...whatever happens...she is going to need a friend!!

Answer 2

Wow man, thats serious!

You could talk with her. I think its the best way.

Talk about what u saw and what u think. Try not to be aggressive

stay calm...

Good luck and stay in touch  

Answer 3

She is only 14 so I think if you should be upset with anyone it should be the uncle. You need to talk to her as he may have some control over her. It may be something you might want to talk to your mum about and see which she says as it seems like a serious situation. Remember that she is still your friend so try and do what is best for her. :) Good luck

Answer 4

This "uncle" needs to be reported to the police.

He is a pedophile.

Answer 5

mind your own buisness would be a good start.

Answer 6

pray and hope for the best. do what you think is right

this isn't your problem and though i know you are concerned for her (she is your best friend after all), try not to get involved with her problems too much.

Answer 7

Yes you are right she is not doing good

Answer 8

i can't believe people are really answering this question.

she can't be serious...this is ridiculous.