14 Year old birthday party?? (female)?

Question

(first off sorry for possibly putting this in the wrong category. i couldn't find any ones that fit!) =/

Okay so I live in 'middle of no where' Big Bear.

(for the past 2 years i've tried camping for my birthday and it was always too cold-so that's out of the question.)

My actual birthday is in October but (like i said) it's always too cold so I'm having it in September.

I was thinking about maybe a hawaiian BBQ thing.....

Either that or 80's theme.

I have a nice grassy yard and a sick sound system for music but I'm still not to sure.

[haha i like to plan things ahead of time lol]

**My style**

I'm more of a peace-loving hippy type person. :)

I love rock,hip-hop,&&reggae.

I'm inviting about 10 bettys and like 5 dudes.

(don't want a crazy block party)

Answer 1

hmm... A Hawaiian BBQ sounds really fun.  You should do that.  Then at your party you could play cool games: D .  With a big grassy yard you could easily start a game of kickball (which is easy and fun) or something like that.