14 and pregnaunt?

Question

I'm pregnaunt. I know, I know. It's scary. My father is a priest and he will totally kill me if he found out i had s*x with my boyfriend. See, my boyfriend is like 16 and hes a jr. It's totally fine with everyone that im a freshman with a jr, just i dont think they would be fine if i was having s e x with him. I'm so scared. I have been hiding out for weeks since my stomach has finally been starting to take shape. What should I do? I have only told my sister and she think that i should just wait until I am father along in the pregnancy. I know everyone is going to say "tell your parents" and "you should give it up for adoption" but the truth is, im scared to tell my parents because we are 100 percent christian...hard core christian. My boyfriend is so supportive with everything im doing. But what is scary is that i don't know what I am doing?! Im so new at this its scary. I also want to keep the baby. Im 16 weeks along...what should i do??

Answer 1

tell your parents, then at least they can get you prepard. even though you think your boyfriend is suportive know, wait until your 6-8 mounths along and then he will ditch. im sorry for the harsh truth, but you if your so "hard core christian" then why did you have s e x and worse, not use a condom.   i wish you luck.

-kaitlyn

Answer 2

learn how to spell pregnant.

then your baby may have a chance

jk give it up for adoption

your eventually going to have to tell them it will be hard at first but you shouldn't be asking random people who dont understand your situation talk to a counselor

Answer 3

tell your dad and just own up.. im the kind of kid who never gets in trouble and just thinking about it i get those butterflies because im sure my parents are just like yours.. hardcore christian. im a sophmore..

all you can do is say your sorry but you want to keep the baby and youll do whatever you need to do. say that youll never do it again and that you understand that when God set the rules in The Bible it was for a good reason..

best of luck and feel free to email me if you need to talk :]

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Answer 4

really. what are you gonna do...when youre 9 months pregnant tell your parents you have an over-eating disorder. when you give birth tell them you passed a kidney stone?? nooooo. you HAVE to tell them. its not a matter of choice because now its not your life. it's the babies life.

Answer 5

Abortion or Adoption. Keeping this baby will ruin your life. I recommend the former.

Answer 6

What ever happened to ABSTINENCE! You should have made him wear a condom. Best of luck to you dear.

Answer 7

do not give the baby up no matter what  happens.tell your dad but not until its noticable and when u tell him make sure your not alone.

Answer 8

you do have to tell your dad, you DONT have to give the baby up for adoption.

EDIT: now i think you are TROLL!

Answer 9

Troll

Priests don't have kids.

Only ministers and reverends and such

Get a life.

Answer 10

It's better to tell them now than wait a month and let them find out (hear rumors) if you wait to long and they find out that way they'll be angry...but if you tell them now...they'll be a little shocked....and you could always have the baby and they could adopt it and it would sorta be your little sis/bro....my cousin went through the same thing this year but she's 16...they kept the baby too...Her parents weren't mad,sad, just a little shocked and they were HAPPY??

Answer 11

I get that your parents are HARD CORE because my family is HARD CORE Catholic and I completely sympathize with you on that level.

-Bottom line though. You can't get an abortion now anyway. It's too late. AND your daddy and mommy dearest are going to find out eventually so you might as well give them time to calm down about it. Unless this guy has the means to support you (which I'm sure a 16 yr old doesn't) and you're willing to run away... you're going to need to tell your parents and you're going to need there support.

You are also going to need to be ready to WORK *HARD* because if you're keeping that baby you have definitely chosen the hard route. See a Dr. so you can get a pre natal exam.

GOOD LUCK and I'm sure your parents will understand!! or at least try and help you!

Answer 12

It's your choice when to tell your parents, but you need to make sure your taking your vitamins and seeing your doctor regularly.  That's what is most important.  Just make sure you're getting proper medical care and eating right.

Answer 13

you need to tell your parents for the baby. they will know what the right thing for you and the baby will be. you cant keep hiding it.

Answer 14

"wait until i am FATHER along"

well placed pun, bravo

.........cuz your dad's a priest

Answer 15

i think it is very important you tell your parents. they will have to find out some time, the sooner you get it over with the better plus they can help you out. i know it will be hard and it will affect your family, but it's important you let them now. this is not a simple situation.

Answer 16

i know this is probably not what you wanted to hear but the best thing is to telll someone . the health of the baby is should what matters the most. You should tell your parents but if your not comfortable find a adult you are comfortable with they can help you get to a doctor and get help and even tell your parents . There going to find out in the end and if your planning on keeping it your going to need there help adn support. Your parents most likley are going to be mad and upset but with time they should be able to forgive you and they will be your best support system

Answer 17

wow wow wow!!!ur in trouble!!!! tell ur mom or get an u know abortion and dont tell anyone including ur bf he might let it slip but choose the decision that seems right to u but remember ur breathing for two and ur responsible for the infant

Answer 18

Tell them now. The sooner the better. You'll just be sitting around dreading and worrying until you actually get if off you chest. Just do it, and deal with the consequences.

Answer 19

eventually your parents are going to find out. when they see your belly growing bigger they're going to notice something. but if you were hard core christian, then how come you had s*x at such a young age? didn't you even use protection? well it's too late now, but i suggest talking to your parents. the longer you wait, the more stressful it's going to be.

Answer 20

There is nothing to do besides come clean. They'll figure it out eventually. It is better to tell sooner than later.

Your b/f is supportive and your parents will be too if they really love you.

Answer 21

How sad is it when people get pregnant before they can spell it?

Tell your parents. Just shut up and do it. If you can't tell them ask a relative or a friend's parents you trust to help you do. If your parents are cruel I am sure there is someone you can stay with. Your boyfriends family, friends, relatives, shelters etc. And you should probably give the baby up for adoption. There is no way you are ready for a baby.

Answer 22

tell your mom and just own up....the sooner the better

Answer 23

Keeping a baby at 14 is more irresponsible than getting pregnant. Give the kid a chance with someone ready for children. You have to tell your parents now. I have a daughter and although I would be angry and hurt that she was pregnant I would do everything in my power to help her through the situation. A parents love for their child does not change because they make a mistake no matter how big. Your sister is wrong! If you thought you were mature enough to have unprotected s*x than show some maturity and face your parents. The baby has needs also. You need to see an OBGYN immediately to make sure the baby is developing well. There are also countless things that a pregnant woman must do to insure the baby is developing correctly. Forget your fear and think of the baby.

Answer 24

I feel bad For You you can have s*x but u cant spell PREGNANT!!! but You should wait till it REALY SHOWS so they cant like hit u or something.But I kinda feel you cause I lost my virginity at 11.

Answer 25

You should not have given it up so easily at 14, you should have used protection just like they teach in s*x Ed., wait you get that class next year...

I know I am being a @#$!^ but it is the truth, if you were gonna have s*x you should have used a condom... and obviously your not the hard core christian, your family is...

What you have to do is tell your parents as soon as possible so that you get prenatal care... forget about scared, and the fear of telling your priest father,  he, your mother, and rest of the family may disown you, stop talking to the black sheep of the family, and give you dirty looks during family gatherings, but they will still love you, and help you out in your time of need, you will also have to make sure you have the support of your idiot boyfriend and his family to make this work at your young age...

It is not as glamorous as Jamie Lynn Spears makes it look.

Good luck to you, and congradulations.... I think

Answer 26

Well, since your dad will kill you, I guess you don't need to worry about much. He will take care of the problem for you.

Answer 27

sweetheart being a Christian means calling onto God for these types of answers. Not YAHOO people lol..... have your boyfriend take you to the local clinic and they can sit down with you and talk to you about how to tell your parents and they are really good things to say. I know you are terrified but I am so BLESSED to hear that you are keeping the baby!!!!! Pray to God and start listening to what he is saying. Have your boyfriend there with you when you tell them. I had a similar things happen to two of my girlfriends and I was beside them the whole time. Have your best friend come over and ask her not to leave you no matter what. I love you and God loves you and he doesn't bring you to situtions that he doesn't feel you can't handle!

Answer 28

Build a time machine?

Answer 29

you should have gotten an abortion.

Answer 30

Maybe you should start off with learning how to spell "pregnant" correctly.

Answer 31

If your family is REALLY Christian (and by REAL I mean not pretentious) then they should stand by you 100%! They are there for you. They love you. Everyone makes mistakes and they know this. No doubt that they will be disappointed, but they should be supportive.

You really need to tell them, as much as you don't want to hear it. You'll need doctor visits, prenatal vitamins, advice, all kinds of things.

As for keeping or not keeping it... you should do whatever you feel is right in your heart. You're a mommy! It's your child! You and your boyfriend are the only people who can make that decision. You might need advice and counseling, though.

Good luck, sweetheart. Everything will be okay. Just trust God!!