14 and wanting birth control... but how?

Question

Ok...I'm 14 and my mom told me before i think I'm going to have s*x to tell her and she can put me on birth control. I'm scared to disappoint my mom, by telling her that i want to have s*x. i just don't want her to be concerned about me. i want her to trust me, in the fact that im making the right decision. i want to be protected... can you help me find a way to tell her?

Answer 1

have a hear to heart with her

tell her what you told us

and make sure you know for sure you want to have s*x.

most woman who had it at you age regreted it.

make sure your doind it for you and only you.

and even with birth control use a condom.

you can love without s*x and you can have s*x without love.

i'm 18 a virgin and god d**n proud of it

Answer 2

thats hormones talking!

ur too young to be having s*x and birth control at ur age is dangerous since ur not done developing. It could led to health problems later on. Wait...what is the rush?

Believe me, wait!

Answer 3

well obviously she wants you to be able to come to her for everything, so i don't think she'll be dissapointed when you tell her you want birth control. if anything she'll be glad that you made the right decision by telling her, and going about s*x in a safe way. just come right out and tell her. don't hesitate. just get it over with.

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Answer 4

Well if your period is really bad, irregular, or really bad cramps- you could be put on birth control for that..

That's why I'm on it because my cramps were TERRIBLE I could barely move for the first few days. But a little after I started my B.C. I didn't have periods for a lil but then I started to have it for a few days less and my cramps are completly gone!

I know I will probably get someone who disagree's with me but I'm in your position and I'm 15. If you wanna talk more just message me =)