14. lost virginity to my 28 year old 3rd cousin; is this wrong?

Question

2nd week into the summer holidays i met my 3rd cousin, frank. he walked me home and asked me for a kiss, i refused. the next night we were cuddled up on the sofa, he walked me home and asked again, it was so romantic and we kissed. a few nights later we crashed on a friends sofa together and he fingered me. we carried on having a cheeky snog here and there but recently the flat owner went out late at night for 2 nights in a row and left me and frank alone for 2 hours. he asked me if i wanted to go into the bedroom, he didn't force me to or anything. i really like him and i really wanted to loose my virginity to him. we used a com don and he took it slow and made certain i was comfortable all through. the next night we got left alone again and we didn't use a condom. the thing is, not only are am i under age and he's like twice my age, he has a girlfriend and a 1 year old daughter. we've kept it all very hush hush and id never say anything because it would kill him to lose his daughter. but hes not in love with his misses.everything is so confusing. i want to carry on seeing him but is it wrong with our ages, is it wrong because hes my 3rd cousin, is it wrong because he has a girlfriend and a child. and what if I'm pregnant?!

Answer 1

if you have to ask on y!a, yes its wrong.  

Answer 2

Not only is it very wrong it is illegallll!!!!

Answer 3

whether you rot in h**l or not the point is hes a peadophile,and if anyone ever finds out then hes going to be done for rape.and he should be done too.

Answer 4

Oh u think about ur pregnancy at last ! Its a wrong relationship altogether ! age difference, relatives, his daughter, no condom ! everything. U still want to see him ? Why? wont u be embarrassed if her wife or GF finds u in this ?  What if u get pregnant ? What if he returns back to her wife ? Wat if ur parents know that u sleeping with a guy in these conditions ?

Answer 5

yes, this is very wrong.

Answer 6

that is wrong on so many levels. not only is it insest, but he's a grown man! he could go to jail for statutory rape!

Answer 7

wow that crazy u have to talk to him he cant get mad at  ÃƒÂ£Ã‚Â³  for havin a baby _thats if  ÃƒÂ£Ã‚Â³  have it_ beceuse he went alone with it. he knew what he was doin.  i would tell him now befor something happen n  ÃƒÂ£Ã‚Â³  ur all alone n dont know what do.......  

Answer 8

Wrong on a bunch of levels and possibly illegal, depending on where you are.  Frank's a scumbag, I'm afraid.  And you're too young for this kind of drama.

Answer 9

The fact that you thought it was okay to have s*x with someone who has a significant other and a child speaks volumes about your character.

Get your self esteem in check. You have serious issues.

Answer 10

Yes, it's wrong. He completely took advantage of a young girl. He cheated on his girlfriend. You both did something wrong, but he as the adult really should know better.

Answer 11

It's not only wrong on so many levels, but also illegal. You should probably talk to someone about it, because it's clear you have some self-respect issues. And he is probably just feeling good about having slept with a younger girl, no matter what he says about you or his feelings.

Stop seeing him. Don't, under any circumstances (no matter what you think you may feel for him) let yourself be alone with him. In the long run, it won't do you any good.  

Answer 12

You two just got

your tickets to h**l.

Well at least you'll rot together, right?