14 year old girl in a jam! Homecoming?

Question

My daughter decided to go to the homecoming dance with a friend (girl). Now, a boy has asked her to the dance. What do you think she should do?

Answer 1

Go with the boy...the girlfriend should understand.

Answer 2

Hoes over Bros!! (the one tree hill way)

Really say tto the boy she already has plans but ask him to do something else, movies dinner whatever they want to do. Make sure to save him a dance

Answer 3

hoes before bros

lmao :D

but uhm, why doesn't she just go with both of them?

Answer 4

both of them.

or SHE can find the friend a date

and they can double.

im 14 and my mom would not even know this.

i do not really tell her much and i like to keep it that way.

sooo.

yeah.

maybe a double date

Answer 5

It depends on how close to the dance it is... if the dance is still a couple of weeks off, then sure let her tell her friend about the boy, and usually friends will totally understand that (i know we did when i was in school, the exact same thing happened to me and my best friend).  If the dance is this weekend or next weekend though, i would have her tell the boy that she has already committed to go with her friend, but if they could find another guy maybe they could all go as a group, or all go by themselves and meet up there.  That is also pretty common, for guys to go as a group and girls as a group, and then there is no "date" pressure.  It is really up to your daughter what she wants to do, unless of course, you feel she is too young to be dating anyway, and then you could always tell her that she can meet up with this boy at the dance.

Answer 6

Tell your daughter to talk to the friend and see if it is ok to go to the dance with the boy. But also tell her that friends last longer than boyfriends. You could also suggest that her friend get a date and do a double.