14 year old guys. change. HELP!?

Question

ok so at camp all the guys are like your gorgeous and your hot and like funny and everything. but at school the guys don't even talk to me, they think im ugly and boring. (btw the guys at camp are hotter). im not as outgoing at school, but im still a lil outgoing. Ive known the guys at my school for almost 9 years, so how do i get them to see me like the guys at my camp do? Any advice taken. Thanks babes!

Answer 1

I don't know if this was strictly a male-answer-only question.. but oh well.

For starters you should realize that the boys at your school grew up with you. Half of them either view you as "just another girl I know" or as "that chick who [enter something embarassing] in third grade".

The boys at your camp only see you for who you are at this moment, right now. They don't care about your past, or what you did when you were in 5th grade. They figure, "hey. there's a pretty good-lookin' chick. why not get her attention?".

Compare them like this...

To the boys at your school, you're just stale air.

To the boys at your camp, you're a fresh breeze.

If you want the boys at your school to notice you more, then you need to make a change. Whether it's a simple tweeking of your eyebrows, a little mascara, or even a whole new wardrobe.. they'll notice.

h**l, when I wore mascara to school for the first time in 7th grade, everybody seemed to notice! And I'm definitely not popular!

But after you make that change, you need to keep it up. You can't do what I did and think that people will just keep getting shocked over and over by that one change. They'll get used to it sooner or later.

Make a small change.

If there's a guy that notices it.. maybe he's a guy that's secretly had a crush on you since grade school.

Answer 2

not every person is same...

u should try to change ur looks .... and be social to others...