14 yr. old girl addicted to p**n?

Question

i am 14 & i have been watching p**n since i was about 12 in a half. i watch it about twice a month or more or maybe even less, but i think i'm addicted. the worse part is i am a girl & i think i'm the only GIRL that looks at it, most disgusting guys do. & i have a boyfriend & 2 tell u the truth i am one of the most innocent 14 yr old girls u will ever meet[besides my addiction 2 p**n]..so it's not like i'm a "bad" girl...but i always feel bad afterwards & i still can't stop. i always tell god sorry & ask him 2 help me but nothing seems 2 be working...

& my parents CANNOT find out about this so counseling is out of the ?...especially since i am already in counseling for being extremelyy shy, they definitely couldn't afored for me 2...not thati'm poor but i'm not rich...even if they could i want 2 know how 2 stop without my parents knowing. please say something that will really help. mostly anything anyone says doesn't seem to help!

well please help the best u can!! :)

<3 rachel.

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with looking at things - or exploring yourself. At least you&#039;re not out with tons of boys, fooling around at your young age and/or having your own babies.

You&#039;re NOT addicted unless you&#039;re looking at it EVERY DAY and can&#039;t stop, forsaking schoolwork, friends and everything else for it. Twice a month isn&#039;t addicted in any way, the odds are that you are a visually stimulated person - which is why you&#039;d watch it to feel stimulated etc. A large percentage of males are visually stimulated, which is why they do like to watch p**n, and honestly, TONS of girls your age and older watch it too - only they don&#039;t discuss it.

You are NOT the only girl in ANY way that watches that stuff! You won&#039;t grow up weird or anything like that - you&#039;re totally healthy. I don&#039;t think there is anything wrong with what you&#039;re doing in any way.

If you&#039;re watching it online, be careful of what sites you go to due to spyware etc and stuff that will mess up your computer. If you don&#039;t like how you&#039;re watching them, then simply try using your own imagination instead - picturing things so that you still have the stimulation of images, just not seeing them physically. You just might be a strongly visually stimulated person and in that case, a few times a month won&#039;t kill you.

If you&#039;re watching simple, straight-up p**n then you&#039;re a perfectly normal teen. I also highly doubt that any god/goddess/diety  would d**n a teen for watching p**n when there are SO many truly horrible things you could be out doing.

As long as you don&#039;t feel that you personally have to do any of the things you seen in porns when you do decide to have s*x, and understand that there is a strong emotional side to it, as well as great responsibility in having s*x safely, then you have nothing to worry about.

No matter what anyone says, you are NOT alone and you are NOT an addicted freak :)

Answer 2

Well mabe if u start to look at it just tell urself no and do sumthing else

Answer 3

According to the Islamic religion, women are ten times more desirous than men, but also ten times as shy, and that is their protection. If you want to stop, just stop. Maybe you need to get married so you can try all that stuff out in person.

Answer 4

It&#039;s actually pretty normal as long as you dont watch it everyday, ask ur parents to get rid of the channels like HBO and Cinemax that have p**n and that might work.

Answer 5

Well praying always helps with anything and god will fix your problem in due time youi just hnestly have to believe that he will help you stop becuase if you don&#039;t believe that it will happen then it wont but believe he can do it and he will.. And your 14 right?.. Well so that means your still in school correct?.. Well why don&#039;t you one day before or after school or even on lunch or whatever kinda breaks you have (don&#039;t know your school lol) but why don&#039;t you just go talk to him/her about yoiur &#039;problem&#039; and it couldn&#039;t be any worse than what you did hear you basically told everyone that has a computer that ou are &#039;addicted to p**n&#039; (keep reading lol) and i know that it is different in ways becuase this way you can be annonmous but if you went to your counseler at school it wouldn&#039;t be.. But i know how you feel i have always been a shy person but i went to my high school counslier for advice about almost everything she helped me so much.. And if you went to your school coulsiler then your parents would no and they wouldn&#039;t have to pay for anything.. And i mean it could just be an experamental phase i guess and sweetie not only old perv&#039;s watch pron i watch it sometimes lol.. My brother watches it and there is nothing to be ashamed of or embarrased about but i know were your coming from about yoiur parents to.. But 2 times a month is not an addiction lol.. But i hope what i said helped.. Keep me posted on how things go or if you need to talk about anything else you got my email now.. But i hope i helped.. -Devoni-

Answer 6

only twice a month?

its not an addiction.

to tell you the truth, when i was 12-14 i used to watch p**n like every other night

but ALOT of girls do, even though they may deny it.

and EVERY guy does. literally, whoever own a computer. they have.

do dont think of it as discusting.

i mean you&#039;re probabaly curious, andit&#039;s something you like.

and you don&#039;t even watch it That much.

dont stress. it shouldnt go on for forever.

Answer 7

I watch p**n and I&#039;m a 16 year old girl. It&#039;s normal. It&#039;s not like its only a guy thing and as a matter of a fact, some couples watch them together haha. But anyway, no need to be ashamed.

Answer 8

I Am 13 and sruggling from a p**n addiction the best thing you can do is go to chruch and to repent of your sins everytime you get the urge of p**n read a bible

Answer 9

dude ur fine...i had a problem kinda like that too...i didnt know how to stop...then finally, while looking at it, i jsut had to tell myself NO and yea, it was SO TEMPTING but u cant back down..it was like a challenge.u can win or u can fail...and i know u can win cuz i won at it and mines was far worse

Answer 10

twice a month is not alot. and it is ok for you to be curious. sweety i dont think you are addicted and not a bad person. you said you are extremly shy right? well the things you are watching are probably what girls your age talk about w their friends. maybe what they think s*x is like and what not. maybe this is your way of figuring things out. ask yourself why you look at it. does it make you feel good, are you curious? good luck

Answer 11

you think looking at p**n twice a month is being addicted? no... far from it... your fine. as long as you are NOT doing what you are seeing, then go for it. i looked at p**n too when i was younger, still do. doesn&#039;t mean I&#039;m addicted. as long as you don&#039;t spend money on it, look at it at school, look at it at friends houses... ha ha your okay.