14 yr old nose pierced ? should i let her ?

Question

14 yr old nose pierced ? should i let her ?

Answer 1

I am only 20 and I already know that when my parents used to say no because it only leads to wanted something else pierced or tattooed they were absolutely right. And I am actually very glad they said no all those times and kept saying no through all my being mean about it. I am much happier now that I don't have holes all over me. I think it is a good idea to make them wait until they are 18, because USUALLY by then they make better decisions.

Answer 2

I think it's totally fine if she wants to do that. I'm 28 and have 11 piercings, including my nose, tongue and 6 total in my ears. I've never had any problem finding a job (I work in government) and people don't seem to respect me any less because of this.

I honestly figure that if it's not permanent (like a tattoo) then who cares? Let her do it. If she decides one day that she hates it, she can always take it out.

But, I would have her pay for it with her own money and you will have to go with her to a reputable piercing/tattoo parlor. (Do NOT go to a drug store or other place like that to get it done.) Also, get her to do all the research on it. Have her write up a short "essay" that explains exactly how she'll have to take care of it and other things like that. If she complains about having to do these things, she doesn't want it badly enough.

Answer 3

more than likely they won't let her have one at school. If they will, I say let her. My opinion has always been to let  them be unique. The only thing I wouldn't let my son do is get  a tattoo

because it's not really reversable.

Answer 4

yes you should...

it's just a nose piercing

it's for her fun...she's not

hurting herself

Answer 5

i think you should say no because even though i'm only 19 i can still remember what it was like at 14 and one minute i wanted one thing and another minute i wanted something else. maybe you can say something like "when you turn 15 if on your birthday you still want to get this piercing then it will be considered" its a win win situation right? i think 15 is a more realistic age. hope this helps :)

Answer 6

No.

Answer 7

i got permissin to get my belly pierced at 15, so whatever you decide, it is your daughter after all.

Answer 8

yea why not wat do u care what can it dooo to her besides a little hole in her nose

and have u ever seen people from like 1000000 years ago they practicly stuck tree bark in there nose just be glad she isnt doing that ahhaah jkjk

Answer 9

Whatever you want, but I think thats  too young. She needs to grow up some more.

Answer 10

depends on how she acts . i got my bell button pierced at 15 and had good grades that was the deal . my nose i got done at 18

Answer 11

i think you should let her after all its her body and the hole will grow back.i would love my mom if she let me get mine pierced

Answer 12

Piercings, okay, tattos, not so much.  

You can take out a piercing, but not a tattoo.

Answer 13

no, no, no! Although they may not be, by all appearances girls with nose piercings are s***s.  Same with navel rings,and tattoos.  

And appearance is everything at 14.

JUST SAY NO!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 14

It looks so tacky. I wouldn't let her; she will regret it when she is older.

Answer 15

i say let her do it..i mean it is her body..if you do let her get it done and she doesn't like it she can always take it out..

Answer 16

Well, if she's responsible enough to keep it clean, then let her pierce it.

Answer 17

I would recommend letting her get it done professionally. At 14 she is old enough to care for it, and it can be taken out to leave no trace.

When I was that age my parents told me no, so I just did it myself. If you are reasonable then you can avoid such incidents.

Answer 18

i dont think so! 14 is way too young to be having peircings like that. let her grow up a little. i wouldnt let her because after nose peircings, she will want belly button peircings, and after that she will want a tattoo!

Answer 19

I'm a mom of a recently turned 13 year old. I don't think I would allow her to get her nose pierced. Would it grow back if she didn't like it? Would it scar? Get some more information about it before you make your decision. There are pros and cons about everything. You might even consult her pediatrician and see what he or she has to say about long term effects. I think I would wait a while. It could just be a phase she is going through about wanting one; she might not want one next month. Stall if ya have to.

Answer 20

No.

You are her parent and there to save her from herself for as long as you can.  You should allow her to wait until you can no longer legally stop her, then allow her to pay for it herself.

Answer 21

Nose pierce yes, belly pierce absolutely not

Answer 22

I think it's a little young to start getting nose piercings. I would wait until she's a little older. Whenever I see a youngen with a nose piercing, I always think "What is wrong with her parents?" But whatever you decide.

Answer 23

yeah go ahead and let her it will show her a lesson about life and she probably deserves to feel that pain XD