15, talking to doctor privately about birth control pills? possible?

Question

i'm 15 and i love s*x with my boyfriend but, he's just using a condom and i'm afraid. i want to be on birth control. is there any possible way i can talk to my doctor without him telling my parents. i know the whole process of the medical insurance. my parents don't check the bill. i just want them not knowing is that possible? AT 15.

Answer 1

A doctor can't discuss a patient with anyone without their permission.But wouldn't your mum prefer to know that you are sexually active rather than doing it behind her back. An unwanted pregnancy isn't worth ruining your life over.

Also remember it could be illegal for your boyfriend to be having s*x with you, at 15 you could be underage. And depending on his age he could end up with a record or even worse in jail.

Answer 2

It is possible, But my friends older sister did it and they asked for he mum's number and she ran away!

Dont panic, Maybe one of your friends can get you hands on them, Try talking to your boyfriend about this, I hope he'll understand xx

And goodluck x

Answer 3

If you have a Planned Parenthood in your area then I would check there.  Also you can tell your parents that the doctor wants you to go on birth control to regulate your periods.  I am not for lying to parents but sometimes it is a little easier when talking about going on the pill.  Depending on the laws in your area I don't think the doctor is allowed to tell your parents due to confidentiality but I wouldn't count on my answer for that as I may be wrong.  Another idea is to call your doctor's receptionist and just ask them anonymously if you are 15 does the doctor tell parents if you want to go on birth control.  I am with you on the condom thing.  Better to be extra protected and not have to worry about having a baby at 15.  Of course nothing is 100% unless you sre not having s*x at all.  Hope this helps...

Answer 4

Your way to young for any of this ..... Its insane.  

Answer 5

You can go to Planned Parenthood if you are nervous about your parents finding out. PP is confidential and you can get the cost of bc at a lower cost. As well you can get free condoms from them.

Take your boyfriend with you as well... they can talk to both of you about bc, condoms and any questions you both might have. And never go without a condom.... not ever.

Glad to see you want to be responsible.  

Answer 6

Yes you can, your doctor is not allowed to tell anyone anything that you tell them. But i'm sure if you told your mum she would be happy that your having safe s*x & not unprotected