15, wanna have s*x with bf of 6 months?

Question

Does that sound bad? He is a really nice guy and yesterday he said we should have s*x, i want to but i dont know what i should do..help

Answer 1

Preggers.

You could get a birth control shot but do you really want your body's hormones being messed with while you are growing ?

My experience with condoms is that they get ripped up a lot, and there are a lot of counterfeit condoms on the market that do not work at all.

Stick with oral.

Answer 2

i think you should take to him first. make sure both of you are 100 % ready mentally physically and emotionally.

if you not ready then if he loves you he will understand. its your body you decide what if right for it no mater what

both of you are 50% responsible for safe s*x. there is always a risk of something happening weather its 0.00000001% or 100% with or with out protection there is always a risk small or big.

birth control (pill , shot, patch) are only 99.9 % protective. and have a .1% chance of failing.

non all the pros and cons, the god, the bad, and the ugly of s*x are you 100% ready to take that risk. think about it for a minute or 5 and see.

" you can love without s*x and you can have s*x with out love.

plus you two should talk about protection and what both of you should do to prevent pregnancy. and what if you become pregnant what would he do.

I'm 18 a virgin god d**n proud of it with a bf of 8 months (he is 18 too) we have not have s*x yet because i can't afford birth control and i want my first time to be romantic like in a fancy hotel sweet and junk.

here this site should help you:

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-...

you can e-mail me for anything else if you like

Answer 3

Dont do it.. 15 really is way to young, you might not think or feel like that now, but when your older, you'll realize you were to young and wish you could of waited.

Answer 4

You should wait, its SOOO much sweeter when you are IN LOVE LOVE and or going to marry that person, when you have s*x with someone you get sooo attatched and its harder on you if you break up, i mean your going to do what u want but if you tell him u want to wait and he breaks up with you what dose that tell you? Just think before you act thats it.

Answer 5

I don't see why not. Use protection.

Answer 6

I agree with the majority.  DON'T do it.  It isn't worth it.  Hormones are going crazy and men are even crazier than women.  He will just want you for the s*x.  He will tell you "no, I don't", but they do.  We have been there and done that.  

Answer 7

My cousin had s*x when she was 15 and her boyfriend was 21. They are married now and have 2 kids (4yo boy and 1yo girl). My cousin is 24 now. They are happy :-)

Answer 8

if you have to get online and ask complete strangers if you should have s*x then obviously your not ready.

save it. you'll regret it if you dont

Answer 9

seriously...you have to ask for help on this....don't do it...he tells you he thinks you should have s*x????men are pigs...total dogs...wait until you are ready...you don't need to have s*x with someone just because he says he thinks you should...peer pressure is bad...don't do it don't do it don't do it

Answer 10

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...don't do it...as someone older but still young, having been there done that, having experienced young men and what they're like, DON'T.............DO.........IT. Don't do it, you'll regret it and I promise you that. Just because you want something doesn't mean you're ready to have it. First of all 6 months is still like, getting to know eachother in the relationship. It's like a bud on a flower stem just barely opening. Plus, you're only 15 and it's much younger than it feels, trust me. Just....don't do it. Don't give him yourself so easily and so soon, he hasn't done anything to deserve it yet. Hold out and DON'T sleep with him and see how long he stays with you. That's a real test.

Answer 11

NO! NO! NO! Don't don't be doing it at all. Can you wait? Do a lot of activities like going to the arcade, play music.  

Answer 12

Oh, the joys of being young and in love.  I know this is a big decision, but trust me, you'll want to wait it out as long as possible.  The key to deciding if you are ready to have s*x is if you are ready to sit down with your mom and talk to her about it and see what she thinks, and get her advise on contraception and safe s*x.  Even if you think she'll get mad or upset, trust me when I tell you that she will appreciate that you came to her to discuss it first.  Ultimately, it's up to you, but if you're not mature enough to talk openly about s*x with your mom, then you're not ready for it.  Good luck.

Answer 13

I think that you are old enough to make up your own mind. I'm not going to tell you what to do either way because you know yourself best and this is your body. But I would just like to say that if he loves you, he will respect whatever decision you make, whether you decide to go for it or not. And he won't just dump you afterwards. Are you sure that this is what he'll do and that you can trust him?

Answer 14

Don't do it, wait,because you have plenty of time,enjoy being a teen!

Answer 15

i was 15 when i lost my virginity to a boy i had been with for 8 months, i got pregnant after one time! he left me and now i'm raising our son without him. years later i met a wonderful man and we got married, on our wedding night i had to apologize to him for every man i had ever been with before him. he gave himself to me (he was a virgin) and i had already given little pieces of my heart to someone else. i wish with all my heart that i could have given my whole heart to my husband that night. but that's something i can never get back. please wait. don't have to apologize.

Answer 16

Boys at that age only want one thing, please whatever you do, don't do it.

If he really loves you, or really likes you, then he would want to take into consideration what you want as well.

Please don't do it.

Answer 17

Way way way too soon.  Don't let him talk you into it.  Are you on Birth Control?  You need to be on birth control for a few months first.  You also need to use a condom.  

But it is YOUR choice.Few  girls your age are truly able to be responsive.  You may be able to have a baby at 15, but there is no guarantee you will be able to feel any pleasure. It will hurt and may hurt for a while.   He will 'get off; though. And frankly that is all he is concerned with.  Most younger girls tell big stories but many come from romance novels.  You can tell.  

Answer 18

DO NOT DO IT. Both of you are to young and should not even think about having s*x. Do not let this boy talk you into it either. He will get what he wants and move on. s*x is something very emotional as well as physical don't ruin it when are 15 You will be sorry and hurt if you do it at this age. Besides getting a disease or pregnant

Answer 19

Don't do it. I gave it up when I was 15 and I wish so much that I had saved it until I was more mature and more comfortable with my body.

Just wait, I promise you will not regret it. Any guy who tells you that you have to have s*x with him doesn't really love you. Love is willing to wait, no matter what.

Answer 20

Just do it! NOT!! No dont!!

Wait till you really want to!

Saying that you dont know shows you shouldnt!

Wait till you want to ask him!!

You will feel better and enjoy it more!

xoxo

Answer 21

My boyfriend was 15 the first time we had s*x (I was 16.) We're 19 and 20 now and we're still together. If you feel as though you're ready, then I don't see why not. If you have any lingering of doubt (even a little bit) then don't do it, but if there is no doubt in your mind whatsoever that you're ready, then go for it. Just remember to pick up a box of condoms and (if possible) stop by the planned parenthood and get some hormonal birth control. Be smart, be safe.

Good luck!

Answer 22

i think its perfectly ok for a 15 year old to have s*x with a boyfriend of 6 months...if its a joint decision. however it sounds like he's the one wanting to do it. be careful, he sounds a little bit of an idiot.

Answer 23

DONT DO IT..... PLEASE SAVE YOUR V FOR THE RIGHT PERSON AT THE RIGHT TIME. BELIEVE ME THE LONGER YOU WAIT THE BETTER IT WILL WILL BE AND BOYS AT YOUR AGE ONLY WANT s*x ANYWAY. THATS ALL HE WANTS FROM YOU. SORRY TO SOUND HARSH BUT ITS TRUE

Answer 24

Its not bad but it is just hormones and what you want now won't be the same as what you want in future. I strongly urge you to think about your decision because it is a big deal and i think you should wait for  long term relationship when your a few years older and could handle a baby if that did occur.

I also think if you posted a question like this then i don't think your ready.

Answer 25

Why not wait till you are older? You have doubts, which is your mind's way of telling you it is not ready.

s*x can be special, but 99% of the time s*x with a teen boy is a waste of time. You will likely just lay there for a minute and be like "That's it? What is so special about that?"

Answer 26

noo