15 And never had a boyfriend?

Question

I'm not an ugly girl, i wouldn't say. But it seems like every time i like someone it falls apart, So ive had 3 big crushes in my life. The first one i really liked but i didn't tell anyone and he didn't really know me that well, and that just kind of went away after a while. The second.. He liked me too. We used to get on really well and we were very close to getting together until one day he just stopped liking me. And got with another girl. And the crush i have at the moment, I think he likes me I'm not sure, but i also think he likes another girl. He defiantly used to like me but now I'm not so sure. Is there a reason for this? And why it keeps happening. To be honest i dont see it happening with the guy i like now.. But I'm not entirely sure. Thanks for your answers guys.

Answer 1

And you think life is passing you by?

Don't concentrate on getting a boy friend for yourself. Concentrate on BEING a friend. Demonstrate to the people who are around you that you are interested in what they are doing, what are their opinions, what could they use some help with. Keep yourself informed about what's going on in the world, and I don't mean just the superficial things that no one will be talking about next year.

Answer 2

i got the same problem im 14 going to be 15 in may.so wanna hook up ;) xD jk

Answer 3

why don't you just try and get out there more (not be a s**t....)

try and meet more guys.. and more people..

then a guy might really like you..

(not every guy you like likes you.. just try and meet new people.. that might be intrestead in you) xx

Answer 4

Every person finds somebody in time. Trust me, you don't just want "a boyfriend" - you want "a good boyfriend".

Just wait it out. I was 15 when I had my first kiss and 17 when I had my first "REAL" boyfriend... And I think I'm a hottie - LOL! Don't worry so much!

Cliche, but "good things come to those who wait".

Answer 5

Trust me you don't want or need a boyfriend this early!

Answer 6

It sounds like it keeps happening because neither of you follow thru on your feelings. Maybe you are both shy? Someone needs to make the first move. If you can't do it face to face, get his email and drop him a line.

I would rush it or sweat it. You are still young and have many years ahead.

Good luck!

Answer 7

the reason all your crushes move on is because you like eachother then nothing happens you never do anything after that theyre probably waiting for you to be more obvious about you liking them or just waiting for you to ask them out!!!!!just tell the guys you like how you feel  good luck you'll need it lol :)

Answer 8

WOWZA

I'm in almost exactly the same situation. It's kinda like I wrote that myself! lol. I became really close friends with the first guy I liked, but he never liked me like that and I never told him, he even went out with my best friend. Second guy I seriously liked I also became close friends with, but I kinda got over him... This 3rd guy now, I haven't a clue what's going on in his head. He seems to like me and another girl at the same time and I don't see anything happening with him anytime soon... just like you.

I wouldn't worry about the fact you never had a boyfriend, I know loads of people older than us who didn't get a boyfriend till 18, 21 etc. Everything is normal, and you have nothing to worry about. Boys are more interesting as they get older anyway, it takes them aaages to mature above the superficialness. :P So just wait, be patient and it will all eventually change. Plus, with guys, a lot of the time they never really know what they want. Which is unfortunate for the rest of us.

The point is you have plenty of time. It won't always end bad, so keep a little hope on you at all times ;)

Hope I helped and I wish you all the best! =]

Answer 9

your 15 chill out, how many are you supposed to have by now?? no one ever gets together with crushes thats why they are called crushes ;) trust me u dont want a bf theyre pains in the @ss, mines hungover in bed now moaning like a moo lol