15 & Pregnant!! How Do I Tell Mam?

Question

I'm 15 And Have Been With My Boyfriend For Almost 2 Years.

I Found Out Last Month That I'm Pregnant. I'm 5months Gone Already.

My Mam Doesn't Know Yet. I Think I Wanna Tell Her But How?

Is There A Good Way? PLEASE HELP!!!

Thanks In Advance.

Answer 1

If you have an open relationship with your MOM tell her. Have your boyfriend come over to dinner sit down with your MOM and calmly discuss the situation...

Is he willing to care for the child?

Are you willing to carry the child?

These are all things you have to think about.

Edit:

Does your mom know you're sexually active? Have you guys spoken about birth control?

Also, it is in your best interest to speak with her soon, otherwise she WILL find out, and it'll go a lot worse for you. Active moms have a way of finding out this type of thing.

The best way to tell her is straight up. I perfer having the boyfriend their, because at least your parents know that the two of you are serious and have thought things through (marriage? childcare? expenses? etc. having a baby is an expensive thing to do that requires a lot of thought as well as savings)

Do tell her. It will help her to know. And it'll help you too.

WAIT you're in your second trimester and you still don't have a belly? Tell her immediatly!

Answer 2

You neeeed to tell your mother ASAP and dont take any other advice than that from the ppl on here. your not even an adult--your still a kid. you need your mother!

Answer 3

For the sake of the baby please tell your mother right now! Just tell her flat out. She might be upset but it will be much worse if you don't get the proper prenatal care.

Answer 4

Speaking from experience, it is always better to tell her. She will have a hard time with it at the beginning, but she loves you. Just remember that it will not be easy having a baby so young. I was 18 and still in high school.  

Answer 5

just drop the bomb. there isnt too many ways to tell your mom

Answer 6

Start the conversation with, "Mam, I need your help." And I would probably tell her without the boyfriend. If you're at all close to her, she'll want to be there for you... your boyfriend should have the same conversation with his parents without you.    

Answer 7

You need to tell your mom FAST cuz shell think that your hideing it and have been hideing it even thought u said you found out a month agao

:/

Answer 8

Do you trust her enough to take her opinion I would tell her. Just sit her down and comly tell her the news and how you are going to deal with it. Also have you gone to the doctor yet. I would just trust her to react in the right way.

Answer 9

TELL HER  

Answer 10

Well, you know you have to tell her before the baby is born.