15 and had s*x several times...?

Question

Tell me what you think...

Me and my boyfriend have been together for six months and even though I love him, I wonder if my sexual life is a little too developed. I mean, I would never have s*x with somebody unless I was 100% sure that I want to be with them the rest of my life, so I figured it was something I was ready for. Me and him talk about everything, and I am very open with him. Although we argue a lot, we deal with our problems (sometimes it's very hard) and get through it. He cares about me and I care about him, we've talked about marriage, and we've talked about baby names. I just don't want to get pulled in too deep, however he respects my space, and we've promised not to ever get in the way of each others' school and basketball training (we both play). So I just wanted some input on what you thought about think about this. Btw, each time we've had s*x we've used a condom and it was our very first time when we started, so I feel like we have been responsible. And even if I did get pregnant, he would take care of me and the baby. I know this because he told me and he said he didn't want to have s*x unless I promised that if i did get pregnant I would let him take care of it =]

Answer 1

If you are happy than do it even though it is against the law atm for your age if you are ready nothing can stop you

Answer 2

Hey, it's your body. Just don't set yourselves up so that you'll be crushed if one of you breaks up with the other.

Answer 3

15 is way too young to make those decisions.  and yes u are too young for s*x and way too young to think about marriage and babies

Answer 4

cute.

Answer 5

wow!

youre moving wayyyy too fast!

slow down a lil...s*x at 15 is like...idk...but too young

think his over...even if you think you love him...things change as you mature and grow up

Answer 6

I had the same thing and now my gf is pregnant  i asked a question about it and maybe some of the answers can help you.  Its still open so feel free to give your own answer

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 7

Haha, I wouldn't be so trust-worthy at such a young age.  Fifteen, and he's saying he would take care of a newborn child the two of you have had?  I am sure he's just saying that.  What collateral does he have, to provide care for a child?  Just be alert.. and keep using protection, since you two have already been doing it.

But if you get pregnant, don't say nobody told you so.

Answer 8

That sweet little ****.. Good to know.. good to know..

Ill use that too lmao..

u really think he will

*** man hes just doin it to get in ur pants :D

syure me mite luv u, but he aint gonna *** up his life for u.

Answer 9

You are sadly mistaken, young one.  

Answer 10

I think you are not being wise.  If you get pregnant and he keeps his promise, both of your lives will completely change forever.  If you get pregnant and he finds he is unable to keep his promise, your life will still change forever.

It all sounds so romantic at fifteen, but even if he wants to care for the baby, he may find that it is just too overwhelming or financially impossible.  Both of you will be able to earn far less money if you head into the workforce before finishing high school much less college.  Having a baby at your age would mean hard times for you, your boyfriend, and your baby.

Protection is good, but unfortunately it isn't a 100% guarantee.  The only way to be sure you don't get pregnant is to stop having s*x. That's very difficult to do once you've started, but it is the wise and smart thing to do if you really love each other and are strong enough.

Answer 11

Ok well this all sounds sweet and stuff but come on your guys are only 15 its way too soon to be rushing into stuff like this. I mean you guys are so young and there are so many other people out there i'm not saying you should break up but don't get that serious so soon give it time. Alot of guys say they would take care of a kid but when it comes down to it alot of guys leave trust me. Kids are a big responsibilities and when you take on another persons life you give up yours to accommodate to your child's its more than any teen is ready for.

Answer 12

I think thats really responsible i would'nt worry  

Answer 13

Oh the minds of 15 year olds!  You are way too young.  I had a relationship like this when I was 15.. we were together 5 years more after.  Your style will change, your taste will change, you will get bored, things will change as you get older.  There are so many things to explore.  Hey even if you are with him for a while you can explore all the things u want with him.  Coming from experience, everything changes once your in high school....college....jobs... etc.  Chances are you wont be with him forever.  Sorry for the bad news, but its inevitable.  Its usually the girl that gets tired of the guy after a while.

Answer 14

I met my husband when I was 15. I'm 24 now and we couldn't be happier. I know it sounds wierd, but even at that young, it is possible to find someone that you never ever want to be without. This doesn't mean that you have to get married and have babies right away. Have fun but be safe and smart about it.  

Answer 15

If you are wondering whether it is too developed, then maybe it is. It sounds like he is responsible and would stay with you, but you wouldn't want to get pregnant that young. Just ask yourself if you are 100% sure.  

Answer 16

dont even chance it anymore.. be a kid and enjoy life.. their plenty of time for that later in life and if his truely in love with you he would understand...

stop and think ...

Answer 17

You probably won't be with him for life.  Every 15 year old thinks they love their boy/girlfriend and those relationships, like most marriages, fail.  But disregarding that, if you feel that your s*x life is too advanced, stop having s*x.  I had s*x at 14 and I'm a functional (though currently bored) adult, very successful in life, and in control of relationships with men.  Do what's right for you!

Answer 18

wait, you're 15 and you're thinking about getting married and haaving a baby?

wow.

Answer 19

you should definitly tell him your concerns about having a too developed s*x life. he seems like he really respects and loves you. you should be honest. and if he really loves you, he will understand!  

Answer 20

you are too young, yes too developed. later if you do get pregnant, it will be awkward how other teenagers your age still enjoy their teen life... you should talk your parents into this. if they agree then whatever, do it, but trust me, its not practical to have a baby at such a young age. focus on your studies, get into college, gain money, be independant, then have baby. that way, you and your bf can easily support your family financially

Answer 21

some people just develop a sexual life more quickly than others..

but you haven't seemed to develop any maturity- have you thought about maybe actually finishing school before you have a baby to deal with

having a baby isn't just as fun as you seem to think it is.  

Answer 22

what do youtihnk hes gonna tell u

no if u ge trpegnant i would leave u and the baby

of ourse hes gonna tell u h**l stay duhh

girll

im 15 and both of my bestfriends are sexually active my bestfreind had s*x wioht her boyfriend (they wen tout for 7 months b4 intercourseee)and they broke up 2 months laterrr

and my other bf did not have sec with her man for 2 years

i tinhk u should just kno there like not a good chance ur gona marry him ya kno u prob tinhk  ur in love and ur not

but ive had the opportunity to do it but i didnt cuz i didnt wanna ge hurt

live in the moment not in the future and actions speak louder hten words

u souhld b worried aobut pregnancy ge ton the pill u can have s*x wihtout a condom and it feels better all im sayin is h**l probably hurt u in the long run

Answer 23

story of my life. at least you're being responsible you know? there's nothing wrong with that!

Answer 24

Do what ever the h**l you want have as much fun as possible you only get to live once but i think your going a little too far with a kid and marriage but if you feel its right don't let any one else tell you wrong.

Answer 25

Oh boy...

I remember being 15. There was nothing in the world any boy could do to get in my pants. There was also nothing anyone could do to change my mind once I'd decided on something. This leads me to believe that you're probably going to ignore whatever I say. But just in case you're a little more open-minded to advice from adults than I was, I'm going to say what I really think and feel. Please don't feel offended by anything.

You've probably learned in school about the physical risks of having s*x like STDs, cervical cancer, and pregnancy. But has anyone ever told you about the emotional risks? Think about it -- If he leaves you, then you have given something to him that you will never get back. You are completely vulnerable, and you deserve better than that. You say that you wouldn't have had s*x with him if you weren't 100% certain that you wanted to be with him for the rest of your life. But WANTING to be with him forever and actually having the commitment of marriage are two entirely different things.

I'm not saying you should wait until you're married to have s*x. But at least stop having s*x for a few years until you're a little more mature.

Answer 26

you sound like a typical young teen how do we explain you have no idea what you are talking about.  You have so much developing to do mentally and physically this thing you have going is nothing but its no way anyone can show you so you will learn when you go through another phase of life.

Answer 27

Puppy love with s*x

Answer 28

I think you're in too deep already.  15 and having s*x?

Why did you break up for 5 months?

Answer 29

Human beings a sexual creatures; as long as your responsible whatever. Even then, it's pretty much unavoidable.

People who say "ur 2 young don't do it" certainly aren't going to solve any issues with teen...behavior. I'd of thought we'd learn to work around human behavior rather then suppress it by now.

Oh but I suppose that involves measures that a moralistic society won't dare look at it. But I'm getting off-topic.

My stance is pretty much "whatever" - yeah, there are consequences, but people are going to do it anyway. Just keep being responsible (as you are).  

Answer 30

I think that you maybe should slow down a bit. You guys have so much going for you in your life, there is no time for things to be getting this serious. I know because i was in your situation before. Not that I'm trying to wish bad on your relationship, but you honestly don't know what is going to happen down the road. I did all of this, s*x when i was fifteen, wanting to get married, having babies. Sweetie you need to concentrate and school and sports. Its too early in your life for you to be making decisions like that. I hope this helped.