15 year old needs help and answers?

Question

I am 15 years old and last wednesday, whilst on holiday i had s*x for the first time. It was unprotected as we were in the pool and it lasted about 1 minute but then i realised and was like no we cant because it was unprotected. I then started to panic as i wasn't sure if he cumed or not. We then later on friday had protected s*x, and i bked afterwards, which i know is normal. However now i am worried that i am pregnant as i am due my period now but it hasnt happened, and me and my friend always come on around the same time and she came on on friday. I have also been having really bad discharge and i do not know why! please help me !

Answer 1

It is possible that you got pregnant, but there are also other possible explanations for your late period - the one that seems most likely is that you are stressed out. Stress can really mess with your cycle. And obviously, you are stressing out about possibly being pregnant. Try to relax - There is no guarantee, but I think you were probably past ovulation anyways, and so you would not get pregnant if that was the case. Plus it is unlikely that he ejaculated without your knowing it anyways, even in a pool. Without ejaculation, it would be even more unlikely.

Another reason your period could be late (and a reason for the discharge) is simply that you are young and your cycle is still regulating itself. Just because you have always gotten it on the same day as your friend does not mean you always will. Just because it has been predictable up until now, does not mean it can't change suddenly (especially with you being so young).

There are also many other factors that can mess with your cycle - diet, exercise, illness, medications....

Since you are late for your period, you should take a pregnancy test. It should be accurate at this point, if you were in fact pregnant. Buy a home pregnancy test, they work just fine. If by some chance you do end up pregnant, don't put off telling your mom, either.

I bet it will be negative, but anything is possible. Be careful in the future...in fact ideally you should consider not having s*x anymore at all for now. That will be the only way to 100 percent ensure you won't get pregnant. Any birth control can fail, even with perfect use.

Answer 2

If it is possible, please go and get an exam at a free and confidential clinic nearby.  Your discharge could be the result of you contracting a sexually transmitted disease.  If untreated this could leave you sterile later in life - of course, I don't need to tell you that some STDs can take your life.

If you can't go to a clinic, you must do something very hard.  You must tell your parent (be prepared for all h**l to break loose)!  It is hard to believe sometimes, but no one, absolutely no one, loves you more than they do and would ever do more to help and protect you.  You have made the decision that you are ready to be sexually active, so make the decision to take responsibility for your choices.

PLEASE, PLEASE get a medical exam.

Answer 3

Sweetheart s*x is thrilling but comes with a lot of problems and an adult should know hoe to handle s*x,you just go and do it with your eyes closed, as you think you are adult and can have s*x so learn about it do not just do it,and women have to be careful and more sensiable then men in s*x because men are always ready its the women who should know the boundries when to have it and when to say no and to make sure to have safe s*x.

now you have taken your chances that can not be reversed Doctor will be the person to tell you and you have to consult him/her for the advice,and scince will now tell you what going on in your body,whether its your cycle disturbed or pregnancy and if it is pregnancy then you are going to do the most unhuman thing on the face of this earth and that is to murder the baby and this is the most filthy and killing part of having s*x like this.

talk to your Mother because she is the only person in the whole world who can understand your problem and can give you the max in this world ,this you will know once you become the Mother obiviously she will shout at you because it will hurt her but you have to bare it but at last she will do the best for you,Trust on Mothers as they are the gift of GOD to children.

Answer 4

There's always that chance that you are pregnant or contracted something. Go to the doctor or get a test.

If you aren't ready for the responsibility that comes with s*x, don't do it.

I really like the above answer. Please, listen to her and go get an exam.

If there is no clinic, there has to be a doctors office. Schedule yourself an appointment and use your own money, your boyfriend's money,  if you have to, ask your mom for shopping money. But honey, you'll have to tell her eventually, especially if you're pregnant or have an STD. You'll need her support, mentally and financially.