15 year old sister wants to become pregnant?

Question

so my sister, who's 15 years old, confessed to me that she wants to be pregnant. i was sooooo shocked!

she even told me that she wants to take care of a baby, and she's been trying to get pregnant with different guys, so she can get pregnant.

i don't know what to do. i've been trying to talk to her about this. she think i'm wrong! wtf?! i even told my parents about this. they talked to her, she still doesn't listen.

tell me why this is wrong, erghhhhh!!!

Answer 1

because shes way too young to be taking care of a kid

Answer 2

Your sister should spend some time with a teen mom.

She has obviously never babysitted..

When i babysitted my cousins i couldn't wait to wait for years to get a child.

Answer 3

i dunt thenk its unordinary for unexperianced girls to want a baby to play mommy with and dress up and show off. but they dont understand that a baby is not  doll, and a baby is a human being who deserves to have a real father not soem sperm donor 15 year old guy friend of hers. having a baby at 15 will bring her life to a screetchign halt, or at least give her a heavy adult burden to bear, not to mention try to find a mature adult man who will not feel the comitment scare when he fidns out u have a child on the first date.

my advice to u is not to scare her away since shes confiding in u, u have a chance to help her, expose her to children by any means nessessary, have her babysit, volenteer at a daycare anything, hopefully she will take motherhood more seriously ♥ if this doesnt work get ur parents involved

Answer 4

your sister have mental problems you shoul take her to a psychologist

Answer 5

Do you know some one with a baby

If so, have her stay the weekend with you, and babysit

Have her take care of a baby all weekend, should be enough birth control for most

You may need to tell your parents, having s*x with guys, and not using protection is dumb.  You mom should get her to see and OB/gym

Answer 6

Call the Maury show and have her be on there with other teen girls who want to be pregnant. They supply babies from women willing to give their babies up for a day so the teens can take care of babies and see how much they "really" know about babies, and most of them dont know a thing about babies and the show turns the teen girls around.

Answer 7

Hi.  Everyone has different reasons want to get pregnant.  The issue in here is, why you are so shocked?  Because, by law, it is illegal having sexual intercourse with an underage female and underage female shouldn't get pregnant in modern and civilised society.  By nature, once we have puberty, we are ready to have babies.  That's why two hundred yrs ago in England people married when they were 12, 13 years old.  I would suggest you that you tell your parents find a councelor to speak to her because she doesn't want to listen to them.  And councelor can keep her secret without spreading around.  She is teenager.  This age group is very rebellent.  And also ask her the following questions with a curiosity and casual tone, if you want, of course :

1.  Why she wants to get pregnant?

2.  What kind of man she had s*x with?

3.  Does she know those men who didn't have any diseases?  Diseases can cause miscarriage.  Then she can not have babies.

4. If she wants to take care of a baby, why doesn't she take some courses of learning how to take care of babies?

5.  Why doesn't she find a part time job of knowing what exactly it likes to take care of baby?

6.  Who's going to pay for everything to the babies?  is it from gov't?  Does she want a better life for her own baby? A beautiful clothes, big house, nice man who love her and her baby, etc.

7.  Without doing a DNA test, the baby may have some inherit issue when it is born.  Does she want to make a better choice instead of random guys?  After all, she wants to control her life and her own family that's the reason why she wants to get pregnant.  Does she want a better life for her baby and family?

Don't feel bad.  You are very good girl to look after your sister.  She may have some issue behind of all that.  Ask your parents spend more time with her, but not bugging her.  She will review her reasons eventually.  Be patient, and wait.  Good luck.

Answer 8

She's too young to be a mom. To have a baby is a great responsibility. Accompanied her to social services and they will give her a class about sexuality and motherhood. I think this will help.

Answer 9

I can relate to your sister. I just turned 16 two days ago, but I lost a baby back in May. It was an unplanned pregnancy (and the father, who was just my friend, completely betrayed me) but the more I was thinking about it, the more I wanted that baby. When it was happening, I didn't know I was having a miscarriage. When I found it, it didn't bother me at all. I was just "okay, whatever" about it. Recently it hit me, and I got so depressed about it. I considered purposely getting pregnant.

I came to my senses. And your sister probably will too. Keep talking to her. Show her factual information about teen moms (not just "teen moms have awful lives" show her actual facts)

But don't hound her. Hounding her is just going to make her want to get pregnant more.

Answer 10

tell your parent take her or make them take her to get a shot.. b/c

Answer 11

Why is this NOT wrong. IS she insane? She's 15, she's got a long way to go. Buy her a puppy or something. Maybe she can take care of that...

Answer 12

OMG!!..is she really trying to get pregnant??...what the f*** is she thinking???....i mean....i swear...before your parents take her to an OB/gyn....tell them to take her to a psychiatrist!

and she's actually having s*x with all those guys!..what is she...crazyyy???...tell your parents that she still doesn't understand and she still wants to be  a mother.

Answer 13

Tell her that she can get a sexual transmitted disease and that no guy is going to respect her or her body -- their just going to sweet talk her and have s*x with her.

Tell her that once she is pregnant -- how is she going to know who her babies daddy is?

What is she going to tell her baby when he/she asks "wheres daddy?"

Is she going to say she slept with every guy to get pregnant and doesn't know who her daddy is?

How is she going to raise her child?

What about school and her life?

Doesn't she want to enjoy her highschool years, go to prom and party with her girls?

Or does she want to stay at home taking care of her baby?

Tell her shes going to need to get a job and drop out of school.

Tell her that her childhood is going to be over and shes going to have to be A MOM.

Tell her all these things -- get through to her.

And if all fails, send her to boot camp!

Answer 14

ask her how much she thinks it will cost to raise a baby. a recent survay showed that it costs over $200.000.00 to raise a child to adulthood WITHOUT privet schooling

btw you might want to mention that tyring to carry a fetuos to full term could kill her at her age, if not seriouse internal damage.

babies are boring and tiering , its hours of staying up for feeds , snotty noses and sh*tty diapers and not to mention the hours of constant worry.

ask her why she doesnt want more from life? does she really have such little self esteem?

then again if she is to stupid to do anything but breed.

btw sleeping around with random guys is more likley to get you and STD than pregnant

Answer 15

Keep talking to her and to your parents. If I were your mother, your sis would be grounded indefinitely until 18.

Answer 16

Whoa!?!? 15 years old and she's really trying to become a single mother already? You should contact planned parenthood (www.plannedparenthood.com) and they'll do whatever they can to help her with her decision, I'm sure they know a lot of young girls who would be more than happy to tell your sister what being a young single mother is really like.

Answer 17

Your parents NEED to take her to the doctors and get her that birth control shot that works for 4 years!

Do it!

They need to force her to get SOMETHING she cant be taking care of a baby. She hasn't even frikin graduated yet.