15 yrs an confused,need honest opions?

Question

ok so this man i love of 15 yrs is so mean tells me how fat iam talks ugly too me but takes good care of me an when i get ready too leave he dont want me too there is no s*x or nothing i tell all woman need too be touched held or even ahug well im nurting an need advice now ive talked tell iwas blue now what 15yrs is hard too throw away

Answer 1

Have you been really putting up with this for 15 years and now you expect the jerk to change.  

Unless you do something drastic like leave or convince him go to to counceling nothing is going to change.

Answer 2

dump his sorry ****

Answer 3

15 years is alot to just throw away but think of the consequences of holding on to him, would you rather have 15 more years of wasted time and emotional abuse?  Unless he miraculously stops with the verbal insults i'd say leave him, lose a few pounds and make him regret ever saying such things. Godd luck in any choice you make, and believe in yourself with what you choose. Remember it is not the end of the world if you decide to leave him.  Also... just because he takes care of you it doesnt mean youre cared for.

Answer 4

why would you want to be with someone who puts you down? you dont need someone in your life who calls you fat and ugly!!! if he loved you he wouldnt say things like that

Answer 5

Your also feeling hormonal vibes coming from puberty in addition to feelings you have for this guy. If he really loved you he would't be putting you down. Breakup with him, your still young and find your one and only partner later in life.