16 and have tried to have a baby not with only one guy ?

Question

i was about 15 when i stared to see what my body was really like

i had my boyfriend that wanted a baby we tried and tried but nothing ever happend so i tried with 2 other guys and still nothing i am 16 now and im staring to think i cant have kids but dont want to go to the Dr. to fide out my family would kill me what do i do

Answer 1

Do yourself a favor and wait a few years to try and have a baby. Your future baby will thank you for it, and you will be MUCH better prepared. I'm sure your body is fine. Anyways, you can't just have s*x any given day and get pregnant, you are only able to get pregnant 1-2 days out of the month.

Answer 2

You should stop trying til your older. And it's true what 'paperfan' said about not being mentally mature enough. Everyone your age that wants a child see's it as a novelty, not as a persons life that you are responsible for. Maybe you are capible of raising a child but are you ready to make that child become an adult and lead it in the right direction?

Answer 3

It does not mean you cant have kids is just your body's way of saying your to young.  Why would you want a baby at 16. You are still young. There is a difference wanting to have a baby at 16 and wanting to me a mum one day. Live your childhood and wait till you are grown up. And also think about the men you are sleeping with. Are they ready to become fathers.

It is not just the little baby you have for ever. They cute little new born does not last long. You get the back pain, heart burn, stretch marks, knee pain, sickness, stitches, bleeding for month, sleepless nights, sore b***s, no time for your self, always worrying. Its not all lovely and cute. Then you have when they are ill. paying for them, providing for them for the rest of there life.

Grow up, leave collage and get a good job. Work hard for a few years till you meat the man you want to spend your life with. Not just a boyfriend you see as a sperm donar. Create a baby out of love not just wanting something to do.

Answer 4

Why are you trying to get pregnant at 16? WAIT.

Answer 5

i think your family would be more likely to kill you if you actually got pregnant, not if you went to find out if you were ever able to get pregnant. i think you need to listen closer to your biological clock because at 15/16 you shouldn't want a baby. if it happens it happens but don't go looking for it

Answer 6

its a sign that you shouldn't be trying for a baby stop now before its to late your too young!!!!

Answer 7

You are way too young too care for a child on your own. U need too grow up.How are u gonna bring a child into this world when you can't even take care of yourself. Sleeping with guys just too get pregnant . U think those guys are gonna be with if u get pregnant?????? Don't be like the girls on the maury show, who are 16, and don't know who the father of their child are.You are a smart girl, and a baby should be the last thing that's on your mind right now.. Live your childhood, Finnish school, go too college ( can't support a baby working at MacDonald's) then meet someone who loves and cares for you. And then have a baby, Don't just have every tom, d**k and Harry's baby. They just want whats in your pants. If you were my daughter u would be wearing a chasity belt till u were done college! I feel bad for girls who think they need a baby , so they will always have someone who will love them. GET A PUPPY INSTEAD!!

Answer 8

i used to think like you, that a baby wouldn't be too hard and i could do it on my own at 16 years old.  when my baby turned 6 years old she stabbed me in my throat with a kitchen knife while i was sleeping, and i have permanately lost the ability to speak.  when the child therapists ask her why she did it, she said it was because she hated me for not giving her a father, and i was too young to be a mommy so she was trying to get rid of me so she could live with a normal family.  i did my best, but i wish i would have waited until i was older.  good luck to you

Answer 9

Uhhh..what do you do?? Try growing up first before having a baby. What would your family do if you did get pregnant? What is SO wrong with you that you need a baby to justify your life? Why would you do that to a poor innocent child?

16 year olds should NEVER be having babies! You're not mentally ready to raise a happy healthy child!  

Answer 10

just what we need another welfare mom! thanks for wasting my hard earned tax money like this. so ya gonna be a grandma @28, striving for great granny by 40, how dumb are you? get a frickin' education, a career, and a d**n husband first! what the h**l is wrong with you people, kids having babies, they are humans not dolls, and deserve abetter life than some immature punk kid can provide! shame on you.

Answer 11

my dear you should.......

STOP BEING A s**t!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YOUR TOO YOUNG TO HAVE A CHILD!

YOU WOULD REGRET DOING IT CAUSE A CHILD ISNT A DOLL LIKE YOU THINK IT IS........

Answer 12

It means you are too young and your body isn't ready. The fact that you are TRYING at 16 proves you aren't mature enough. Having unprotected s*x with multiple partners is a great way to ensure that you will never a child because you are going to have way to many STDs to safely carry a baby.

Stop and Wait. I was 16 with my first and though I love my daughter with all my heart her life would be sooooooo much better if I had waited. (I didn't try...completle accident)

Answer 13

Sweetie, please reconsider your quest for a child. I wanted a child really bad at 17. I fought a lot with depression and had issues thanks to family members who thought they had the right to touch me inappropriately.

And I thank the good Lord for not allowing me to conceive when I was trying to. It's very possible that you can conceive a child. But now is not the time and until you finish school and hopefully college, don't worry about having a lil one for a while. Please. Do it for you, and the future bundle of joy. Get yourself together first, grow up, enjoy your time, get your toys and then have one. The closest to the right way as possible.

Deal with whatever is going on with you that you are replacing with that baby.

Answer 14

It's Gods way of saying that your not ready. Don't you think your family would kill you too if you did get pregnant?

Answer 15

you are obviously way too young

travel the world

get a job

go out and meet new people

go back to school and learn some spelling and grammar

Answer 16

God I pray this is a joke...

Well miss, your ready for a baby are you? Well let me see if you can answer a few questions...

1. How are you going to pay for the child's birth? My son cost 22,500$ after all the medical bills, and that's just the birth.

2. How are you going to support yourself and the baby? Do you rely want to be a 16 year old with a baby living off the state?

3. Are you prepared with all you need to take care of a baby? Like a car of your own with insurance in case you have to go to the hospital suddenly with the child? A crib to sleep in? Car seats? Cloths? Bottles? Toys? Diapers?

4. What happens to your baby if you die in a horrible car crash? Do you have life insurance? Do you have someone willing and ready to take the baby in or will the poor child end up in a orphanage?

5. What will you do if this boy you are dating leaves when he finds out you are pregnant? Go fishing for another and trick him into thinking its his? Do you WANT to be a single girl with a baby at 16?

6. Where are you going to raise your baby? Do you have a house of your own? You cant rent an apartment till you are 18, are your parents going to support you? Will you and your baby end up sleeping under a freeway overpass?

THINK THINGS THROUGH!

Talk to your parents. Don't tell them you have been TRYING, just tell your mom you are thinking about having s*x and you want to be SAFE.

GO GET SOME *$&#(^& Control if you are going to have s*x!

Oh, and just for the record I don't blame kids like this for what they do, I BLAME THEIR PARENTS!!!!!

Answer 17

I think everything happens for a reason and at the right time. Your time might not be now because you are so young. Get yourself checked out but please wait a little bit longer.

Answer 18

why are you trying to get pregnant at 16? and do you think it's an experiment or something, it doesn't work with one guy go try others? seriously, what the h**l is wrong with you.  

Answer 19

yes that means you cant have kids.

  

GOODBYE

Answer 20

GIRL YOU"RE CRAAAAZY! do you know how much fun i had before having a kid? get the h**l out of here! i feel like i am a slave now that i have a kid...i have to constantly do what the baby wants not what i want.  i cant go out anymore or do the things i used to....my whole life changed.  i am sooo glad i waited til i was 32.  its soooo much work.  i havent slept in months.  i cant even go back to school for my teaching degree right now so i can only imagine how much highschool would suck.  besides you cant afford a kid.  i make 30000 a year and its hard.  you better be making at least that or more before you have a kid...get a pet first.  if you dont kill it and it grows up to be healthy then think about a kid...my 2 cats are big and healthy...7 year olds.  so i know i can at least take care of a kid...if your pet makes it to 7 then you can have a kid...

Answer 21

My eye seriously just twitched from annoyance when I read your question.

Why in the world would you be trying to have a baby at 16?

Be a teenager! Wait until you have a baby.

Answer 22

ur still to young thats why, ur body is not ready 4 a child. grow up first, live ur child hood, because whether u want to accept it or not ur 16 and still a child, you dont think so? you cant drink n smoke legally, you cant go to pubs/clubs legally. things children cant do, so why on earth would u want to have a baby when your only a baby yourself. i mean wait until you have found the right guy, live ur life, done the young thing then settle down, because once you have settled there is no turning back.

Answer 23

WHY ARE YOU TRYING!? UR TOO YOUNG