16 year old male teenagers??and my life?

Question

I always seem to be masturbating over stuff of the net or friends that look good or other girls that i see and perhaps imagining things that i shouldn't be although id most likely never do them for real. Its summer but its been really bad sort of, the nights are drawing in, ive left school and am going to college in september and the person i love hasnt spoken to be properly for well over a year and lots of girls just don't seem to wanna know me or bother and all my friends well most of them seem to be getting boy and girlfriends and i never seem to get invited out with my mates that much and i feel really misserable and lonely. Like my life isn't really going anywhere and im worried about going to college and just wanna stop the time from passing. I don't expect you to right back anything here much, i just wanted to tell some people and get it off my chest and see what people have to say.?

Answer 1

its so strange how you and i are in exactly the same situation..we are even the same age. but trust me i have it just a little worse.... if you want to talk email me..

Answer 2

i sympathize with you, although i'm a bit younger. all my friends have girlfriends and boyfriends, and i've never had one. i'm younger than all of the kids in my high school so it affects me a lot more. you're probably more confident than me so just ask out all those chicks you're masturbating to. and just keep trying to set up dates to hang out with your friends, and eventually they'll get the point.

Answer 3

Don't feel so miserable. We all go to phases where we feel lonely or alone. Going to college will give you a new environment and the great potential to find friends. Focus on your future and you will see soon that it will brighten again.

Answer 4

its normal to be and feel like this, believe it or not its puberty. You are describing exactly how i felt at that age. Chill out, would be the best advise i could give you. you'll grow in confidance with age and wonder what you were worried about. you are about to go through the best few years of your life, don't waste it worrying. your normal. it will all happen for you, just give it a chance.

Don't feel too guilty about the masterbation either, its normal,