16 years old, pregnant, and don't know which one is the father. HELP!?

Question

I've had unprotected s*x with my boyfriend (19 years old) 20 times in around four days in the middle of my cycle. He said that some c*m might have spilled into me a few times. After that I had s*x (half-drunk) with a friend (17 years old) but he didn't c*m at all because we had to stop in the middle of it. Now I'm really scared that the baby might be my friends and not my boyfriends? What are the ods since I've had s*x with my boyfriend so many times and only ten minutes with my friend?

Answer 1

50 % chance of either guy being the father with a 100 % chance of you being a TRAMP!

Answer 2

It is most likely your boyfriends. Are you deff pregnant? If you are I wouldn't let the boyfriend know you have doubts. If the "friend" didn't even finish, and the boyfriend leaked a bit, then the chances are very slim for the "friend" to be the father. However this situation sucks and I pray for the best for you.

Answer 3

hmmm, the truth.

your first concern should be THE baby.  NO matter which is the dad... NO more drinks kitten...   no more blaming drinking for UNwise choices.  

Your second concern should be  "Why was I having s*x with MY boyfriend when I am NOT ready to be faithful in a relationship."

3rd.. "didn't come at all"?  maybe he does not know that some slips out even with out climax.  With the odds you mention tho' I would place money on the baby being mister 20 times.

4th...how serious are you about bf #1?  If you do NOT tell him of your indiscretion , your life will be hellish on your conscience. yet if YOU do tell him he may get mean or drop you....

fifth   ...Now that you will be a MOM...  THE baby takes priority over any "whattabout me."  cuz' that IS what MOMs  do.  

Best of luck dear one, babies are OUR ultimate unconditional loves.

Answer 4

All it takes is one sperm.  the number of times you have had s*x with either of them is totally irrelevent.  Its also irrelevant that your friend didn't ejaculate as pre-ejaculate is enough to get you pregnant.

Why didn't you take the morning after pill (Plan B) or even better use protection?

Sorry but you have been exceptionally irresponsible.  You don't say whether you know for sure that you're pregnant but take a test and if its negative or positive get yourself down to the doctor ASAP for either advice on the pregnancy or b/c.  If you choose to keep the baby then you will have to wait until it is born to know who the father is.

Answer 5

Wow!  Just Wow!  You sound like you are more concerned about who the father is than the fact that you are 16 and pregnant.  You need help.  You have just made the biggest mistake in your life.

Answer 6

Gross. First off all, you're too young to be having s*x, especially with a 19 year old. And you need to use protection because my tax money pays for your b*****d children. Get a DNA test.

Answer 7

You are 16, you shouldn't be having s*x at all, let alone 20 times in 4 days! Shouldn't be getting drunk either....where are you parents?

Answer 8

That was rather stupid. You better hope you haven't caught a sexually transmitted disease - haven't you ever heard of using condoms before? The only way to find out who the father is is to wait until your baby is born and ask for a DNA test. I wish you good luck - because you're definitely going to need it. :-)

Answer 9

shouldn't of had s*x then wouldn't be in this situation if i were you tell your boyfriend first see what he wants to do

Answer 10

it doesn't take much to fall pregnant, if i was you go to the doctors and see what you can do...I know there are tests out there that can determine who is the father.

Good luck

and to the people who are judging because she is 16 get a life

Answer 11

i am from the italian answer and i have come here just to see if the american girls/boys have the same problems as the italians..and i'll tell u what i say at the italian answer..you're so small for these things..i have your same age and i ve never kissed a boy..

bye..

Answer 12

Thats why u shouldnt drink. Get a paternity test when the baby is born

Answer 13

So you cheated on your boyfriend with your friend and your worried to who the father is. Well i think you should tell your boyfriend, hes gonna be pissed but if it is his which i think it is because your friend didnt c*m, then he will be so happy that it is his. Make sure u appoligize for haven a S****y moment, and tell him you regret it and let him know how you feel for him

Answer 14

im sure can give you some sort of tests to see whos it is,

why does everyone think s*x is an act of love, sometimes it can just be a bit of fun

Answer 15

I think there's a similar serious issue here - to put it frankly, you've been slagging around! So, you're pregnant and don't know who the father is at 16 years old? You don't seem to be at all worried your boyfriend might leave you over this - you cheated on him. If both he and your friend leave you, you're stuffed!

Answer 16

OH girl, are you in a mess.  The length of time of intercourse does not mean a thing.  

You know for sure absolutely that you _are_ pregnant?  Not just having a scare?  

There is a small small chance that the baby is your friends and not your boyfriends, but there is a much greater chance it is your boyfriends.  

You need testing that cannot be done without the consent of both your partners because they will have to be tested too.  I am so sorry you made choices that landed you here.  Life has been pretty tough for you I suspect and it is about to get much tougher.  Do  you have a doctor yet?   You will need one.

Answer 17

Odds are about the same, when you have s*x there is always a chance of getting pregnant. The only way to know is to get a DNA test after the baby is born.