17 and pregnant...?

Question

Hello, I know im not a perfect person, so i dont need to be reminded. the Father is sticking by my side and after the baby is born we will be married, anyways im looking for other teens who are also pregnant in hope of finding someone to share worries, hopes, and questions with. also if you have any "positive" comment please feel free to leave it...

Answer 1

i think you can do it. **** happens. but i dont think having  kid as a teenager is as horrible as everyone always makes it sound. yeah its going to be stressful and really hard at times and all but i think it will help you mature quicker and get your life on the road; rather than all us college kids that dont do c**p and want to just go to school forever so we dont have to go into the real world. 17 is pretty young but i still dont think it has to be as "life ruining" as people make it out to be. just stick with your original plan of how you wanted to live your life and go for it. it will be the same, just with a little kid by your side

hope that helped with the positiveness :)

Answer 2

I was young when I got pregnant with my oldest child.  My advice to you is to make sure you further your education.  It's great that the father is standing by you, but make sure you can take care of you and your baby no matter what.  I married young (thank God I finished school) and over time things changed.  I was able to get out of the relationship and not give up my home and am able to provide for my kids.  I see sooooo many girls stay in relationships after they have children just because they can't do it on their own.  Good luck!!!

Answer 3

i think its very good that the father will stay by your side and that you 2 will be getting married. dont worry until your in a bad situation because right now it doesnt sound too tough becuase unlike most young mothers you still have the father. so good luck and i wish the best for your future.((wait for marriage to have another))

Answer 4

IM 16 I GAVE BIRTH TO A BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRL MAY 10TH OF THIS YEAR!! ITS GOOD THAT U ARE STILL TRYING TO DO SOMETHIN WITH UR LIFE.. US TEEN PARENTS HAVE TO PROVE EVERYONE WRONG THAT THINKS HAVING A BABY RUINS OUR LIVES AND MAKES IT SO WE CANT MAKE SOMETHING OF OURSELVES.. GOOD LUcK.. :) I HOPE U MAKE IT TO WHERE U WANA GO IN LIFE

Answer 5

im 16 and i have a one year old child..i would love to chat with u

Answer 6

I had my first daughter when I was 17(conceived at 17 also) and I know how it is. It can be scary at times and then great at others! Just take it one step at a time and I'm glad to hear that the father will be around in yours and baby's life. Its always great to have some sort of support system. If you need any advice or anything you can feel free to email me...I've been there

Answer 7

You silly child!

Answer 8

You can totally do it! I got married when I was 17 and I was a Senior that year and I graduated on the top of my class! I didn't have my baby till 3 years later... But my husband and I managed to survive the first years of our marriage! Look I don't want to discourage you on your marriage but I have a friend who didn't tell anyone she was pregnant and got married to stage her pregnancy with the honey moon! She got married in April and had the baby Sept! She was madly in love with this guy! Well it turns out he's not the prince charming he once was and now they're planning their divorce! It took her a year to finally realize he was not for her! I don't wanna b a hypocrite because marrying  my husband was one of the best things thats I ever done aside of being a momma but don't feel obligated to marry him! Yes u want your baby to have  his/her  parents together but marriage isn't always the answer! Always remember your baby and you always come first ALWAYs!!! Congrats and Good luck honey!  If you have any questions hit me up :)