17!!!!!!so I've been putting this off for a while i think im pregnant ?

Question

and I'm afraid to take a test regarding what the answers gone to be im 17 on saturday me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and still in love i've had a bunch of PG signs but there not as bad now but my period has still not came i'm over a week late what do you think

If theres any mother with advice it would be great im 17 in the 11th grade

I've had unprotexted s*x alot and im not on Birth control

i kno stupid so you don't have to be rude

Answer 1

Definitely get a test.  If your a week late you should get an accurate result.  Good luck.

Answer 2

What did you two think would  happen if you didn't use birth control and had unprotected s*x? It is very possible you are pregnant but the only way to know for sure is to take a pregnancy test. I would go ahead and test. If negative and still no period test again a few days later.

Answer 3

Well the best way to know is to take a test.  Stress can also delay your period.  Your worry could be causing it.  But that is only 50/50.

Talk to your mom or whomever you feel comfortable with to go with you and get a test reguardless you are going to have to know it is very important to know as early as possible to get your prenatal vitamins and things like that!  I know that you are scared you have every right to be.  having a child is a lifetime responsibility. Take a test!!!  If you are I hope that you have a good support system!  You will need it in order to get through school!  But remember a baby is a blessing no matter the circumstances surrounding it!  Good luck hun!!  TAKE A TEST!

Answer 4

take a test . if you are then congrats.

if your not you should really consider birth control because you are still very young and when you have children at a young age you lose out on alot . children are a big responsibity, you have to take care of them when they are sick, miss out on going out with your friends, and all this other fun stuff...and its a lot harder when your this young. do you have a steady job and a place for the baby to live??? how are you gonna buy diapers for the baby??? who's going to pay for the health insurance and all that?? WE are us freakin taxpayers!! get on birth control!!!!!!!!!!! thats motherly advice.  

Answer 5

You will have to face it, and buy a pregnancy test. That way you will know for sure, and you dont have wonder.

If you are prenant, tell your parents straight away, to get good pre natal care.

If you are not, GO ON BIRTH CONTROL!!!

Good luck.

Answer 6

Well i think you should take a test it could be that your eriod has not come becuse of stress. your age is young but you mad eit farther than i did i got preggo at 15. if you find out you are not preg then maybe you might want to start on some kind of birth control.

but also papare your self for being pregnant. Think of what you want in life as well and what you would want for that baby.

Answer 7

ok, so you made a mistake (unprotected s*x) but now you have to deal with it.  i think you should take the pregnancy test and see what happens and the only thing you can do is tell your mom, yes she is going to be mad and disappointed but you will want your mom there in any decision you make.  if your not pregnant although it sounds pretty good you are you have learned that you always need protection,  good luck!!

Answer 8

Well I would say its time to act like a adult since you been doing adult things and face the heat. I had to when I was your age and just take the test and then talk to your parents and bf. Even if the home test says neg I would go have a blood test done to make sure. More than likely your parents know that you've had s*x so they should have had you on some bc and bought you some condoms.

I know you think they are going to be really mad and they probably will be but better to face up to it now then later. You need to get some health care if you are pregnant. Good luck!

Answer 9

well, its not longer all about you anymore.  

Answer 10

well i am 17 and are pregnant and i'm due in three weeks and i was a lot like you i did the same as you just all i can say is to take a test and buy the two test pack so that if one doesn't work then the other would and i would say that you should take the test in the morning also right when you wake up...

Answer 11

You're grown up enough to have unprotected s*x..be grown up enough to deal with the consequences..Take a test..

Answer 12

all right well take a deep breath and take a test. if you dont feel comfortable taking one of those go see a doctor. you can also talk to school conselors (as awkward as that may be) because they are supposed to help you

Answer 13

well you obviously way obsessed about seeing how you have like 16 questions about being pregnant and a question about conceiving...i AM PRETTY SURE YOU HAVE ENOUGH INFO! Also since on one of your questions you needed help conceiving Why don't you go find all about being pregnant while researching it and stop asking so many d**n questions get a grip your probably stressed out.....go be a 17 yr old and get off of here.....I don't have any advice for someone that is wanting to become pregnant at the age of 17 while still in school. Life is not easy with a kid and its not going to be about you anymore!

Answer 14

Face up to it, it isn't going away. You need to test, talk to someone and work out what you're going to do.

If you are incapable of having safe s*x, just don't bother. There is no excuse for it now-a-days its just pure laziness. This is what happens, the situation its avoidable. Learn how to use condoms and get on Birth Control, if not just don't have s*x. Common sense says at some point you are going to get caught out. I guess you learned that the hard way.

Answer 15

Definately get your man to go down and get you a test.  There is a HUGE chance you could be pregnant! HUGE!

Answer 16

if you are, there's nothing wrong with it. i'm 17 years old and 7 months prego. me and my fiance have been dating for about 2 and a half years. at first, it's pretty scary, but at the same time, it's so exciting, and eventually, you get used to the idea and it's not gonna be the easiest thing in the world, but just think...you're brining life into the world!

Answer 17

first, i would tell your mother.  from there, she can take you to a doctor to make sure.  from there, get the pregnancy and std tests.

If you are pregnant:

You're gonna have to live with your mistakes, but i'm sure your mother will be there to help you.  Get into some good classes, and go to the doctor frequently.  Good Luck with your future child.

If you're not:

Make sure you begin to practice safer methods of birth control so that you do not have this occurrence again.  Good Luck with YOUR life.  

Answer 18

I love it when ppl post questions like this & they have answered numerous questions about the same topic....

What does it matter if you don't want to find out? If you are, you are!

Only reason to hold off testing is because it may be too early to get an accurate result.

Answer 19

well i'm 15 and in 11th grade, and i'm pregnant.  i was really scared to take a test, then even more scared to tell my parents.  but i knew it was something i had to do.  so i'd just take a test and get it over with.

Answer 20

it does point 99% to u so just go to the doctor and do not be surprised it u r

Answer 21

remember you could just be stressed about thinking your pregnant. no one on here can tell you if you are you just have to take the test.  

Answer 22

It is unanimous: "take a test"

I'm so sorry.  I really hope you will teach your children to wait.  

Answer 23

Hi there,

there are couple of things i can say to you and the first is you should have been more carefull.

You should take a test and think about how you are going to tell your parents and you boyfriends parents.Its not the end of the world i was 18 when i had my first child and now i have 2 and i am happy.

I mean its not like you had a one night stand and fell pregnant.

My advice would be to enjoy the pregnancy and enjoy your baby when it comes.

Good luck xx

Answer 24

It's not all about YOU anymore!   If you knew it was stupid, why did you do it?  You were given good advice about using birthcontrol and chose to ignore it!  What do you want us Mothers to tell you, since you already know how stupid you've been?  I feel sorry for your kid is about all I have to say!

Answer 25

how late are you? you def need to get a test b/c there are vitamins you should be taking  and foods you shouldn't be eating if you are.  go to the doctor you can go to planned parenthood they will give you a test and also go over options with you as far as taking care of the child.  also they will put you on birth control after you have the baby for one year.

Answer 26

Your young life is over.

Answer 27

just take a test and talk to your mom about birth control so you can prevent this from happening again

  

Answer 28

First I want to say, that even though you don't want to, you should take a pregnancy test so that you can know either way. You never know you may not be.

I was 16 when I got pregnant and gave birth to my first child. I will tell you this, it is hard. If you find out that you are not pregnant PLEASE get on some kind of birth control. Find the one that fits your lifestyle and one that will be easy to remember and stick with it. Coming from someone who knows a little about teen pregnancy, I will say it is very hard.

I wish you the best and good luck!

Answer 29

look sweety i got prego at da age of 17 also i was a junior like u but when i found out i was prego, it scared yeah a lil but i sit down in my bed and i though of wat i was gng to do. i realize dat is my own baby part of me dat i was caring in my belly so i decided to have her and i decided dat no matter wat i was still gng to finish h.s. and go to college because i was gng 2 make sure dat my lil girl wont go through wat i went through i made sure i gave her everything and all the tools she needed in this life. now i'm 21 with a 3 yr old daughter i got my own car, have my own apt. and i love my daughter till death she is my everything. advise---> always think for ur baby and u because u might never kno how ur bf is gng to do u after da baby is born ya might love each other now but u never know. guys mature late and dat happend to me my baby daddy dnt take care of us but his part of da past. my daughter is da present and da future. ANYWAYS IF U R PREGNANT MAKE DA BEST DECISION FOR DA BOTH OF U. KEEP UR HEAD UP DONT LET NO ONE PUT U DOWN JST BECAUSE U PREGO AT 17 AND DONT GET EMBARRSED EITHER I'M TELLING U BECAUSE IS GNG TO HAPPEND **** DA WORLD IS U AND UR BABY NOW.

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Answer 30

Girl you have to bit the bullet and take the test. If you are pregnant you are right now taking the test doesn't change the facts so the longer you are in denial the harder it is going to be excepting the results! If your period is over a week late it's time!

Answer 31

The earlier you take the test the better!  It will either calm your fears allowing your period to start, or confirm what you already suspect.  There is a good chance you are pregnant.  Unfortunately teenagers are often more fertile then adults, so no unprotected s*x is safe.  If you find you are not pregnant, let this be a lesson and please be more careful.  If you are pregnant, it is best to let your mom know soon, so you can get the proper care and your mom can get used to the idea.  She won't like it, but she will get used to the idea and hopefully support you.  Good Luck and we will hope for the best!