18 and pregnant with no 2?

Question

what would the common view from society be? lol just curious

Answer 1

The common view is probably "She cant deal with it/afford it/too young/etc." but personally, I think it's great. You've got two kids, a marriage and you're off to university which obviously means it isnt affecting your life in a negative way. I say congratulations and good luck with your marriage :)

♥ Kimmiii

Answer 2

Ufortunately society will always generalize and criticize.People would think what you have said but what does it matter nobody lives your life other than you.As long as you know what you want and chase your dream who care just be the best u can be.

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Answer 3

good luck to her - it's brilliant!

Answer 4

Most people want to have kids when their done college or university.  You just came out of high school and you already have a kid.  It doesn't make you look good, and people will think your a sl*t or just plain stupid.  The age where most women have their first kid is 22-35.  Just try to take care of them as best as you can and get support from you family.

Answer 5

Wow! All I can say is most young people with two children haven't got the aspirations and enthusiasm you have. You go girl! Bugger what people think, you're doing it for you :)

Answer 6

congratulations! dont worrie what others think of you! its none of there busness! if you want and feel ready for children then theres no problem! true that some would look down there nose at you , but stuff them lol, they dont know you or your circumstances!. sounds like your doing well for yourself! so well done! :D nothing wrong with starting a family earlie...more to to spend time with the children! x*x

Answer 7

i'm 18 and pregnant with my first, i get shittty stares from older women all the time olny because they see that i'm young and generally assume that i won't be able to properly care for my child. for the most part people look down on pregnancy if the woman is under 21.

in some cases many woman under 21 don't have the financial stability of an older woman and do end up on assisted care from the state, yet people should not assume nor judge anyone but themselves.

i myself and quite capable of caring for my child both emotionally and financially, also i was engaged before i ever discovered my pregnancy. i actually love when an older woman makes a snide remark about my age and being pregnant and unable because i for one can back up the fact that i am totally capable.

and since you already have one, and expecting number two you obviously have experience now and most likely a higher level of stability, really the only opinion that will ever matter is your own.

good luck with everything =)

Answer 8

Wow! You married at such a young age. Well.. good luck with your babies. I also agree with "Daria: the black parade is dead" that since you are married the society wouldn't have a bad view about you. Its because you are married and you feel that you are ready to have children.

Even if they have a bad view its non of their business, though I don't think they will have a bad view.

Answer 9

Mercy going to the University? Well take a s*x education class before you have number 3.

Answer 10

congrats babes :) it will be hard at first but it gets easier. i have a 18 month old son and i'm 16 so thats hard enough. hope everything goes okay for you

Answer 11

that your an idiot and didnt learn your lesson the first time

Answer 12

If you were just pregnant because you were sleeping around then it would be looked down on. But since you are married and doing it all without any government support people probably won't think anything of it. CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Answer 13

A Bit Silly Babess,

How Are You Going To Cope?

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Answer 14

congratulations and good luck with uni, from the sound of the additional details id say good on you, you sound level-headed

:)

Answer 15

common view from society  

1- shes a kid having kids

2- has no future

3- and lots and lots of other stuffffffff....

congratulations

i am also married with 2 kids im 19 now

but had my 1 Son at 17 and my 2 at 18

I noticed that some people would look at me funny

and would say what they liked us if we could not hear !

kepp going and have lots more   lololol

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Answer 16

to have one at an early age,but then to not learn and go and have another one,youmust be mad

Answer 17

Since you are married and stuff..

They wouldn't have a bad view.

Answer 18

The common view from society would most likely be to class her as a 'chav' and a bit of an idiot quite honestly. Particularly if she is expecting the taxpayer to support her.

Answer 19

That you don't understand how to properly use birth control and you are probably loose. You are mooching of the government to support you.

That's not what I think but that's what people would think!

Answer 20

Hearing that you are 18 and pregnant with number two, the general reaction would probably be, 'silly wee slapper', but hearing that you intend to do something productive with your life should hopefully make people realise that not every pregnant teen fits the stereotype.  I hope you do acheive your ambitions, but I know from experience that it is hard.  Unfortunately potential employers can also hold onto the stereotype.  I dont know your background, but I can tell you that you will have to work twice as hard to convince people to take you seriously, because a lot will see '19 with two kids' and switch off.