I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over eighteen months now, and he still has not said those three little words to me. I'm 22, he's 25 - he works full time in IT and I study at university. I'm his second relationship, his first lasted only 6 weeks. I am the first woman he brought home to his parents, his first sexual experience, etc. He's very caring and affectionate, from offering to pick me up late at night from uni functions, to holding and kissing me all the time and falling asleep with his arm wrapped around me. He tells me he likes me, but any time I mention anything commitment related, he gets very uncomfortable. We've been talking about moving in together in a year or so, but even talk of that seems to make him uncomfortable. I told him I don't expect a proposal, that we (me especially) are far too young for it, etc. His parents divorced 8 years ago, his father lives in another state with his new wife and his mother has her partner to visit once a month or so. During his childhood he rarely stayed in one city or school for more than a year, and spent his high school years in a boarding school. Why do you think he hasn't told me he loves me? Is it me, or him? I'm scared to tell him I love him for fear of rejection. Help!
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