My stepdaughter just turned 16 and has developed an interest in a recently graduated 18 y.o. boy. This boy has admirable goals for his life, but his MySpace profile includes elements (quotes, comments) that put me off of the idea of him having anything to do with my s.d.
My biggest concern is that she has expressed interest in him from a purely physical standpoint. They're just doing the modern teen "hanging out" from time to time, but I worry that the message the boy is getting is that physical interaction is to be hoped for in the future. Meanwhile, my s.d. refuses to hear my concerns so I must communicate them through her mother, which works more or less.
My question is this: How concerned should I be? Do I let it ride and wait for my s.d. to determine for herself if he's right or not? I'm well aware of statutory rape laws, and don't want him touching her at all. How to proceed? Help, please!
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