19years and my boyfriend is 27years is this good to marry?

Question

19years and my boyfriend is 27years is this good to marry?

Answer 1

with marriage anything is possible.

that is, if the adult age in your country is 18

marriage can exist even without love just to be clear

Answer 2

May you live happily ever after

Answer 3

Yeah!  Sure!  Why not?  He's got some "maturity" on him.  I've ALWAYS felt that a man shouldn't marry until he's 27!  So. . .he's at that "magic" number as far as I'm concerned!

Answer 4

if your in love of course its good to marry, only you know for sure, dont let people try to convince you other wise, no one but you can answer that Q.

Answer 5

Um yeah no!  19 life just starting and the 27yr old is a well I won't say.!

Sorry that's my thoughts.

If you were 29 and he was 35 then you've had a chance to explore and enjoy life.   Don't rush into it, trust me it's best to wait and think about it don't you at least want to be able to legally drink at your wedding?  21....

Answer 6

Wow, quite a spread in age for such a young couple, but hey, if you are happy, you are happy. I would, however, at least wait until both people can frequent a bar together (AKA 21).

Answer 7

Dont worry, as long as you love him anything will work.

My mum married my dad when she was 13 and he was 33

Even now they are still togethor

Answer 8

well i would say no because ur only 19 and u still have a life to live and i think that u just need to go out and have fun with out having to worry about a husband because ur young and i think that u should wait..

Answer 9

Yes, but as long as you BOTH are marrying for the same reason and you BOTH are ready to settle down. Yes, there is an age difference but sometimes that does not matter. However, I am 22 and can't imagine marrying a 19 year old. Sorry. Too much life to live!!!

Answer 10

trust me when I tell you this, you need to wait.  The next few years you will do a lot of growing up and you need time to go party and have fun...don't rush it or else you may add the divorce rate

Answer 11

Well, you're both legal adults, so I don't see a problem with it.  What's the rush, though?  You're so young- you have years before you have to worry about having kids, etc.  Are you sure you don't just want to maybe move in together for a while?

Answer 12

If you REALLY think so, but that's a HUGE Difference.

Answer 13

Its a little early i would say you might see marrage as a new begining but really its like lockin yourself in for the rest of your life...the end of UNLIMITED fun

Answer 14

Look at what life stages you guys are in. If you're both in similar stages of life that's fine. If you're just about to move out from home for the first time, and want to party go wild when he wants stability, or vice versa, it's not great.

Whatever you do, don't just move in together and plan to get married later. It kills your chances of the marriage surviving. (Doubles the divorce rate).

Answer 15

The fact that you posted this question on Yahoo Answers is an answer in itself.  When I married my husband I didn't ask anyone's opinion. I loved him and that was all.  Conventional wisdom would say that you are too young and still have a lot of living to do.  College is always the best idea.  You get to have fun and party all in the same cool environment.  When you get out you have a better chance of getting a higher paying job.  Then the best of all you have the opportunity to meet men who have higher earning potential and intellectual conversation.  Get married young and if it doesn't work out you have to try to succeed in a world which honors higher education and practical knowledge.  I married a little later than most but now I have a true commitment and a satisfying career as a teacher.  My husband is educationally on the same level as me and we understand each other.  He is 14 years younger than me and we have been married for 6 years.  Age is only a number but education is the key to success.  The point is that if I were left alone for any reason I would be able to support myself and my son without having to resort to hard labor like my poor mother did.  Wait if you can but if it is the call to destiny then make sure that one stipulation of the marriage would be that you get your degree and if you hate school at least get an Associate's Degree from a junior college and/or a trade.  Good Luck and God Bless.

Answer 16

Marital success depends entirely on emotional maturity...and that has little to do with age.

Being emotional maturity means having discipline in all aspects of life.

Also, things do not 'just work themselves out because you love each other'. Marriage is hard daily work...what is the work? Getting the same marital expectations...and sacrificing much of your individual wants for marital needs for a couple decades. The benefits of the sacrifice are usually worth it, but most people can't handle giving up so much of their individual wants.

Looking back on life (I'm 42), it could have been SO easy. If I were 19, I'd totally sacrifice most of my individual wants for ten years. During that ten years, I'd get my 'career' education and save up enough to buy a cheap car and house outright. So at age 30, I own a house, I own a car, have no debt, have a great salary, have extremely low cost of living...I could travel, have children, tell abusing bosses to kiss my bum, build wealth fast, and so on.

This is what Dave Ramsey calls "living like no one else, so, later, you can live like no one else". And yes, you can do this and be married...as long as you two are on the same page.

I STRONGLY recommend you two go to at least two different marriage counselors and read the following books:

http://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Marriag...

http://www.amazon.com/More-than-Enough-C...

To heck with wishing you good luck...instead, I wish you to grow up!

Answer 17

I would say no.  You are at different stages and I think that you need to have a chance to live a life with out answering to someone else.  I think that you need to wait a few years before you marry, him or anyone else.  You really could change your mind as you finish your maturing

Answer 18

Love knows no boundaries.

Answer 19

thats  8 years differance and if u love hime wait alil to make sure hes the one , at least untill ur 21 that way u have more freedom

Answer 20

Its all good an fine now... But you just wait, I know you might not think this now, but you have a lot of growing to do. You two might grow apart. Do not get married, you'll divorce faster then you can imagin. Wait and see how you feel when you get older, if he loves you he'll wait.

Answer 21

Age doesnt matter, as long as it legal. If you love him and he loves you... But you are questioning it.. so maybe if your not sure than, i would ask myself what that means.

Answer 22

Being 8 years apart is not the problem.  How mature are you?  How mature is he?  Are you going to college?  Are you ready to do the things that older young people do?  Will you feellike you missed  out on something?  What if someone else comes along?  How long did you date?  Did you ask the 101  questions that the "book" tells you to ask and answer before tying the knot?  You are asking for a simple answer to a complex question.

Answer 23

If you love him, marry him. How could you ever forgive yourself if you let the love of your life slip through your fingers?

If it's less then sure then you might want to take it slower.

Good luck

Answer 24

I think you should wait.  My husband is quite a bit older than me, so his age isn't really a problem, but yours is.  I think you are too young to get married.  You will have your whole lives to be together, so you should take a couple of years for yourself first.  From the time I was 18 to the time I was 25, I have changed so much.  It wouldn't be right for you to tie yourself down right right now.  You have so much growing to do as you go from a teenager to an adult and you may be held back by a commitment like marriage.  I say wait until after you turn 21.  Even take a long engagement if you feel like you need to commit like that.  But you should definitely wait to get married.

Answer 25

No you are to young to get married....finish college live on your own for a year....and get some independence values....Then if you still want to marry him then go for it...Learn to stand before you walk....Much Luck

Answer 26

the age span is not a problem, in fact as your get older it matters less. Its really good for the guy to be older and established. You might be a little young tho, I would suggest dating for at least 2 years before. You might want to live with him first, you need to see him at his element, and see how well you coexist. Be sure not to nag him constantly.

Answer 27

If you both carry the same values, hopes and dreams...honey, age isn't a barrier.  My parents were 7 yrs. apart and were happily married for over 50 yrs.  Best of Luck!

Answer 28

If you love to eachother who cares age...

But I wish he could be 23 or 24...

But the thing is you are so young to get married...Live your life.Live your freedom!! Then get married with him...

Answer 29

I tell every young person I know "Please don't get married until you are at least 23 or 24 and PLEASE don't have children until you've established a career.. Your whole future outlook depends on it". Every 18 or 19 year old I've ever known to get married was broke their entire adult life.

Answer 30

well i don't its a really good idea if u do get married you guys might fight a lot and your boy will sometimes boss u aroundbecause your younger

Answer 31

I guess if you both LOVE each other then i say go for it and dont let no one get in your way