2 guys? 1 girl? what to do?

Question

i have a boyfriend. very sweet but he lives on the other side of the country.

now my friend who lives about 15 minutes away from me is starting to like me (i think). i have had feelings for him since we met. a few nights ago he spent the night at my house. (keep in mind that neither of us were sober). anyway, all night he had his arm around me (his shirt was off if it makes a difference) and i felt so safe and secure and i had a warm feeling go through my body. before that he also gave me and my friend a kiss on the forhead. then a couple weeks before that i had invited him over and after a while i offered to invite my other friend over (he supposedly loves her) but he refused and just wanted to spend time with me.

what should i do

Answer 1

I think he's just seeing how far he can get with you.   Maybe your friend that he supposedly lovews isn't showing much potential in that area?

Answer 2

ARms to hold you sure feels good. I cannot hug a phone. It all depends how long your bf is going to be half way round the country. Long distance relationships are hard and require a lot of work. I say take things slow with this friend and see where it leads ya.

good luck.

Answer 3

Long term relationships dont work just go out with ur friend and get rid of ur boyfriend

Answer 4

Before me and my wife got married we had a long distance relationship for almost three years.  We saw each other only about 4 times a year, but when we did it was spectacular.  You may be feeling these feelings only because it's been a while since you've been with your boyfriend.  Next time your boyfriend comes and visits you should get together with a bunch of friends and have your #2 boy be there as well and see which one you seem to attract to.

Answer 5

if you're going to act like that with other guys then you need to break up with your bf.  you are being unfair to him.

Answer 6

It's pretty clear that you do not love your long-distance boyfriend, so be fair and let him go; wheather you make-it with the guy here or not.  You're being unfair to the long distance boyfriend...but you already knew that.

This neighborhood guy loves your girl "friend" ???

Why are you siding up to him at all? If you continue, you'll have to give up the girl-friend.

I'm not trying to be cruel, but so far it's clear you haven't been very true to your long-distance boyfriend or your girl-friend...just your sexual attraction at what seems handy.

This guy probably sees you the same way.

Don't be surprised if he "does" you and then dumps you.

You need to get some self respect girlfriend!

^j^ ♥

Answer 7

he's acting like a friend. don't be a drama queen and don't s***w that up.