2 love confessions at once. What do i do?

Question

so within the past 24 hours my life has become infinitely complicated. Two separate girls have given two separate love confessions, and I am at a loss for what to do.

The first girl is really nice but a year younger than me. She lives down the street and it seems like we could build a pretty solid relationship. I've known her for years as a confidant and I am afraid that could be at stake. She does however, live on the more sheltered side.

The Second girl I've had some pretty complicated history with. I went out with her 2 years ago and i was heartbroken because i was looking for a relationship and she was looking for "benefits". Now the irony is that I like the girl again but our intentions have essentially switched. She is a pretty easy girl but that could be a good thing and a bad thing.

I honestly have no idea who to choose or whether to choose either for that matter. And if i were to choose one, how would i maintain a friendship with the other?

Answer 1

Neither. Stay away from both girls and spend some time alone for a few weeks to clear your mind.

Once your mind is clear then go ahead and make a decision on which girl to choose, if any.

"Haste surely leads to poverty."

Also, ask your parents.

Answer 2

First one would be a better relationship.  The second girls already broken your heart once, do you really want to let her do that again?  Just let who ever you don't choose know that your interested in some one else, but you'd still like to be friends.

Answer 3

Wow.. that sure is drama with a big capital ''D''

Okay both girls put themselves out there and expressed their feelings and you gotta give them credit for that!

The first girl (although she seems lovely and nice) i don't think you have much romantic feelings for her. Maybe you can tell her that. . but if you do have romantic feelings for her, weigh those feelings out! Are they small or huge?

The second girl, you may have had a complicated history with her but I feel a lot of romantic tension between you two.

Dont look at it as picking which girl (because your certainly spoiled for choice) think of it as which one would I rather be a boyfriend to.

And whatever one who wasnt choose explain to her why. Girls appreciate honesty!