2 months away, getting jittery!!

Question

Its 2 months from the day now and I am getting REALLY nervous! Im excited and happy but Im nervous about the big day. Im even having nightmares. Is there anything I can do to calm down? I feel so anxious!!

Answer 1

Thats Normal.

My Fiance & I Have Been Engaged Only 4 Months & We Don't Plan On Getting Married For 3+ Years & I Have Scary Dreams All The Time.

I've Been Dreaming That On Our Big Day It Gets Cut Short Because Of Natural Disasters.

Just Have A Nice Hot Bath To Relax & Know That Everything Will Be Fine When It Comes Down To Your Big Day.

Maybe Even Suggest A Hot Bath With Your Fiance (If Thats Possible) & That Will Give You Great Peace Of Mind.

Or Suggest A Romantic Night With Him.

=)

Answer 2

I sympathize with you, I also am getting married in 2 months Oct. 11th. and I'm starting to feel jittery as well.  When it gets really bad I just take a few deep breaths and remind myself that although the wedding is stressful, I am about to marry someone that I adore and who adores me.  Sometimes if he is around I will go and stand in front of him and look deep into his eyes getting all the reassurance that I need.

Good luck and remember its ok to plan for the perfect wedding as long as you don't expect it to turn out that way.  Perfection is unobtainable, and it's the imperfections of the day that will make you laugh 20 yrs from now.

Answer 3

You shouldn't be feeling nervous about 'the big day' you should be feeling nervous about your impending marriage. The day is only one day in your relationship and in the end isn't a big deal. If you are in a secure relationship then you have nothing to worry about. Consider going into premarital counseling that might help convince your nerves that you are doing the right thing.  

Answer 4

Just know that its only for one day, after that. You can relax with your Husband. Good Luck

Answer 5

Be your self and good luck to you and have fun too.