2 or 3 year age difference!

Question

I am 14 and there is a really nice and cute boy who works at the same place as my mom i see him there sometimes and want to talk to him but i am afraid he wont take me seriously since he works there and i am only a member there also he is like 16 or 17 and i am only 14! i am not scared to talk to him or anything but i am scared to be flirty because it will be embarrassing to do that if he treats me like a little girl...HELP PLEASE!

Answer 1

i know how you feel. im also 14 years old and i work as a  camp counsolor. i work with this cute boy. he's also like 16..17. we tlk and hang out and all but he has a girlfriend so i can't do anything bout it.

Maybe you should just start talking to him. i doubt he'll treat you like a little girl. the boy i liked didnt. if he does treat you like a little girl, don't flirt with him. if you guys start talking and all and you think its okay to flirt with him a little bit.. then go ahead. ^.^

hope this works out :]  

Answer 2

Your too young to be dating him or anyone else for that matter. I suggest you enjoy his company and don't flirt with him like crazy. Just enjoy how things are already and keep things the same way. Good luck :-)

Answer 3

just go up to him and start talking to him... don't flirt at first.

and if he treats you like a little girl then don't flirt.. if he doesn't treat you like that then flirt.

good luck!

and in my opinion you are kind of young.

but who knows.. i'm 16 and my b/f is 19.  

Answer 4

I would be wary of trying to get with him. 17 year old guys pretty much think about one thing and if you are a cute, gullible 14 year old, they might see you as an outlet. Just get to know him more and wait a few years! Be friends.

Answer 5

being 14 is young even though he is about 17 there is A LOT  off difference at that age. think about it would you flirt with a 10 year old. be friends and who knows in a couple of years it may work out.