25, never dated, is it a fact to hide?

Question

25, never dated, is it a fact to hide?

Answer 1

Nope, nothing to be ashamed of. I'm 22 and I've never been on a date either.

Answer 2

How can that happen?  It's not that hard to go out on a date.  Or get laid for that matter.

Answer 3

no you're fine. you're still waiting for the right guy, which is the right thing to do.

Answer 4

Hmm.... for guy's 25 is still quite young (esp. those that started puberty very late and take longer to mature physically and still look like freshman year).  

For women it's kind of late, you know....physical prime is really between 17-28 for women.   In my a opinion a 25-year-old women that's never dated is equivalent to a 32-year-old man.  The biological clock begins to tick as they say when a women hits her late 20's.  Unless you have some sort of self-image problem?

You shouldn't be ashamed about it/hide it, you just don't want to have regrets when you are OLD, which will come sooner than you think.  Your missing out on experience and development, is what I'm trying to say.

I'm 30, a guy that's never dated and been shot down hundreds of times and, to be honest, I feel I'm emotionally stunted/crippled due to being denied relationships with a women. I feel it's too late to be 'healed' (to ever feel normal) which is a thought I didn't have until 26. I admit people thought I was 16/17 when I was 25, so I thought the world saw me as a boy (physically) and,  although it was hard dealing with being treated as a boy (opposed to what I was legally - a man), I kind of accepted it and took the notion "I'll be better for it at 40", which is not true 'cause I'll be just a ghost at 40!  

Answer 5

No. You don't need to hide it. Don't worry. It's not a big deal. Just be happy with your life. Be kind and be patient. There are many more important things to be done and thought. Share your time and energy to help others.

Answer 6

There is nothing to hide.

Answer 7

Not at all you can be frank in telling this.  

Answer 8

why hide? there is nothing wrong with that...be honest, maybe he'll treat you like a princess, as he is the first one ;)

Answer 9

No, it's one of those elite facts that you make sure slips out as it differentiates you from the rest of your counterparts.  You didn't think you knew enough then to date and wanted to be knowledgable about the opposite s*x, emotions and treating people well before you dipped into the dating field.

Answer 10

No... you don't need to be embarrassed about that.

Answer 11

Wow, and I thought you we're the social animal :P From the answers you've been giving to my questions, I could have sworn you've had many bf's and have dated numerous times.

I guess things aren't always what they seem eh...

However that being said, don't dwell over this and keep on working on it, you've got plenty of time to find your dream man, If you will. And you can't rush true love, it's not something that happens over night, n'est ce pas ?

Don't give up Katie and I'm confident you'll do just fine....

Regards

Jordan