2nd baby??

Question

How hard was it for you to have a 2 1/2 year old and a newborn. Thats about the age i would like to have my 2nd. Would you have waited a little longer to have your 2nd? Thanks!

Answer 1

My kids are almost 6 years apart, but my friend has a 4 year old and a 2 year old and she has a really hard time with them, but I think it is hard no matter what.  They are going to fight no matter how far apart they are.  The only thing is for a while you will have 2 in diapers.  Not sure there is a perfect distance in between kids no matter how long you wait.

Answer 2

I currently have a 23 month old and a 3 month old.  If I would have known just how difficult it truly is I would have waited a year longer to have my second.  I do love my son but the first 6 weeks were very difficult with him.  Thank goodness  my 23 month old daughter is generally an easy child.  Otherwise I don't know how I would have survived LOL.