3 mos...dating is it too soon to be discussing marriage and moving in together?

Question

my bf and i mad madly in love....we both have sons from previous relationships but we eac feel like we are the one for each other...is this too soon

Answer 1

For me, that would be waaaaay too soon.

What is the rush?  If you are madly in love its not like either of you are going anywhere if you are not married.  Take your time and clearly think things through before making a permanent commitment such as marriage.

Answer 2

Uh yes...what is the hurry? Think about what is in the best interest of your child, you hardly know this guy 3mos is nothing. What if it doesn't work? I say give it time, love at 3mos (seriously).

Answer 3

No.  Certainly, you have both matured from your past relationships and by the children you've had.  IF you can gauge him in that span of time and you are both emotionally and financially prepared to settle down again, why not?

Answer 4

Woe, nelly. Whats the rush?

Answer 5

Only you can answer that.

Answer 6

It worked for me more then 30 anniversaries ago, It depends on both of you after all you will both change as life goes on. It may take a little time to set up the wedding and care for the boys while your on the honeymoon. Maybe it will be 4 months. Good luck

Answer 7

it all depends it could be 10 years and not work so it just depends on the person not time. if he loves you and only and really wants to spend the rest of his life with you than like I said 3 months or 10 years doesn't matter . only thing matters is if he loves you. I know people who have know each other for 7 years and then got marries and divorced so no I really don't think its too early just be honest and serious about what your doing.

Answer 8

Definately too soon!!! You are still in the infatuation/attraction stage of the relationship. It is not fair for you to create a househould for two children - major adjustments for them-which may not work out in the long run and start a road of unpredictability and stability. Give it a year, at least by then you would have had some time to see how the other actually handles family situations, holidays, birthdays, discipline, etc. Then, if you are still so madly in love, get married and make it an official family for the sake of the children.  

Answer 9

u shud wait. u both lov each other but wat if ur children dont like each other.

make some dinners,travel etc. both of u wid ur children.

then u'll came to no that wat u hav to do wait or get married

Answer 10

slow down...enjoy the honeymoon.  What is the big rush?  Especially when children are involved/