3 people dead, how do I stop myself from thinking about it?

Question

The other day a car crashed into a tree killing 3 people near my house, I feel really horrible about it, and it feels like I'm the only one who finds this shocking? It happened on Friday night and now I just feel like there is a huge black cloud around me. They were only 17 years old, and I feel so sad about the situation, even though I didn't know them. How do I get this out of my head?

Answer 1

well, look at it the other way round.. maybe that's HIS calling. HE has got a better plan for them.

if you are still troubled about it, i suggest speaking to your elders or sibling. don't let it drag you into depression..

Answer 2

I think that you just have to believe that God has a purpose for them that required them be elsewhere. Everything happens for a reason. Take it as an opportunity to realize just how fragile life is and appreciate all that you have in your life, and try to appreciate every experience.

Answer 3

You don't get it out of your head.

Everything you try to forget, or throw away; those are the things that stay.

Answer 4

people died !people die every day.

it is not your fault.

but if i want to do somthing I will show support to there families if I know them that the most helpful thing to do ,if I dont know them other people will do it and they eventualy they will pass it. This is the life .

Answer 5

wanted to post an atheists's point of view, since everyone keeps telling you to lean on the religion crutch....

death is part of life, and trauma occurs every second of every day somewhere. it is common to be upset about this, especially at your age. just be grateful it wasn't you, and go have an awesome day today because maybe one day you won't be able to....life is a waiting game, and their card was pulled. You, however, are still able to roll the dice-yay! go run around in the sunshine or something!

Answer 6

Is this what happened in Western Australia?

Answer 7

It is very human to be in the state you are. Time is healer and every incident is a lesson for others. More you communicate  about it with your friends, you will feel better.

May be it is sign for others to know to be careful while on the road behind the wheal. Everyone's life depends on the driver. Drink and driving don't go together.

*In today's age we have been coming across violence so much through the media that it has become just an other headline.

Answer 8

Bury them mentally, put their shocked souls at rest. They don't understand what happened to them and they try to feed on this plane of reality with energy like yours. Their time was arrived, nothing can change that. You are sad for yourself, not them. They'll just continue their evolution another way. Relax, that's life. We all go through that mill, like it or not. I don't believe in this, I know since I was (re)born.