30 yrs old,cant fall pregnant,dont have preiods at all,very stressed,what to do,scared very scared,help please

Question

Im too scared to go to the docter,because ive always dreamt of being a mum,but scared of getting told that will never happen,is their technology today that can help me, i always though if you dont get you periods your screwed.does any one out their have any ideas,that will help me

Answer 1

I didn't get my periods but it was due to iron loss and hormone imbalances which was partly fixed by medication. I went on to have other problems, but you probably wont since mine were genetic.

Ask your friends which gynecologist they see and who they'd recommend so you can know you are seeing someone good. Then go and get every blood test under the sun. All sorts of things could be stopping you from having a period from lack of iron, b12 or just your hormones not quite functioning right, which can be fixed with a simple tablet and which should quickly balance themselves out.

The very WORST thing you can do is nothing. The longer you wait, the worse the problem is going to get. This is what I did. I waited. I ended up in many hospitals. Please don't be like me. Please go see someone good and caring and get the help you need today so you can live the life you dream of.

Yes, their technology today can help you. Yes yes yes. But it can't if you don't know what the problem is. Please see someone. I know how scary and intimate it is, and how you don't want to see anyone, but this is your life and you have to take that step. Get a referral to someone good, and get whatever needs doing done so you can get your periods back on track and live a healthy life!

All the best.

XOX

Answer 2

go to the doctor. if this is something your wanting, make every attempt to make it possible. i had my son 3 years ago and now i dont have periods either. they could never find a reason, but i thought the same thing. if you dont have them you cant get pregnant. good luck and wish you the best.

Answer 3

i didn't get my period for 5 years i have 2 kids....took me along time to get pregnant

Answer 4

Ok firstly you really need to calm down, it's easier said then done we all know, but seriously you are stressing yourself out majorly over something that could have a simple solution.

Do you know why you don't get periods? or do you mean you are just very irregular with your periods? It could be a sign of PCOS which I have and now have 2 girls and TTC #3, it could be a simple hormone balance that just needs medication, there's lots of different things they do that should help, Ok and don't fret too much about your age ok, 30 isn't too bad really, if you were past 35 then there's more reason to be concerned but you're not so chances are still pretty good. (I'm 30 too btw). But please for your own peace of mind go to a doctor so they can run a few simple tests (bloodwork and or ultrasounds etc) to rule out any issues for you and may give you meds to bring on your period.

This is assuming your female and have all the bits and pieces needed to reproduce (sorry had to add that).

Answer 5

If you eat healthy and drink plenty of water and don,t get under to much stress then you will get you periods, if u drink alcholo and drunk all the time that stops you get you period and screws up your plans but go to the doctors and get checked out itt maybe something simple  

Answer 6

You should definetely go to the doctor. I know you're scared to, but there could be something seriously wrong that can be FIXED before it really hurts you! And even if you can't have kids, there's always adoption, if you're open to it. I know it's not the same as actually getting pregnant, but you would still get to be a mommy.  

Answer 7

go see a doctor....

Answer 8

I guess it depends why you are not having a period.

Are you underweight? anorexic? extreme athlete?

That is the only reason I can think of for long periods of time without a period.

Generally you need to talk to the doctor figure out why you are not have periods and all and get your cycle regulated to at least some extent. That is your best chances.

There is a good chance that everything is fixable if dealt with, but you can't go it alone.

Answer 9

hey girl have you heard of provera ask you doctor so it can help with the periods and then girl google (vitex and royal jelly) those are considered nature fertility drugs they are herbs i to have that problem and vitex helps regulate your periods...look it up and the cost is 10 to 11 dollars...cant lose out and the royal jelly helps you eggs and reproductive system...good luck